Approaching Women - The Moment Of Truth

The moment when you approach a woman transmits so much to her about yourself. Here we are going to analyze why this happens and why the moment of approach is the moment of truth.

The interesting thing it is that in this moment you cannot hide your insecurities. The things that are bothering you the most in relation with women and life will come right then.

Many guys don't even arrive many times to this stage of taking the guts and talking with attractive strangers. If you approach girls, you are already in a good position. By the way, approaching girls is an OK thing to do. Going for what you want is a manly and also a must. And don't expect them to come to you(even though it happens sometimes) it's your duty as a man to go for what you want.

Just by looking at a guy when he approaches girls you can deduce an incredible amount of information about his philosophy of life. Does he approaches directly or indirectly? Is he calm relaxed and excited or nervous and fearful? Does he trying to manipulate them? Does he escalate or go to evolve the situation especially if he has the opportunity?(By the way, it's always on. If she stays there and talks to you then it's on.) I noticed that the way a man approaches girls is most of the time the way he approaches everything in life.

From a girl's perspective, she will be attuned with your state of mind. If you are nervous she will feel nervous. Most of the times this is the reason why she doesn't give you the right phone number or why she doesn't actually want to continue this relationship. If you are relaxed, excited and confident she will feel as well relaxed, excited and she will trust you.

There are two main ways that are effective in changing how you feel in these moments:

1. You change first your life in general. You take action daily on what you want. You have goals and purposes that energizes you significantly even when you only think about them. You develop discipline and self reliance. After a while, if you keep the momentum and if you also try out approaches you will experience major chances.

2. A much faster way is to change first how you think internally about this moment. You let go of the negative emotions and you work on the limiting beliefs that are making you to be nervous. You do a few approaches to see what's still bothering you. Having this new information, you change more how you think and the changes will be reflected even more in your life.

So if you want different results go and take action and change your internal reality. You can change it in any way you want. You only need to put smart pressure and time.