When you reach the end of your fleeting physical experience one day, will you wish you had spent more time chasing after money or will you wish that you had invested your most valuable resource, namely your time, into creating meaningful relationships? The reality is that we are so driven to meet society’s expectations to accumulate as many resources as possible and to become as powerful or famous as we can, that we miss out on what really matters, namely family and real friends.

Are you going to continue to allow yourself to waste your life doing something, which when all is said and done, will have very little value for you. Or are you going to make changes in your life now and go after the things that really matter, the things that will make you happy and fulfilled? When you choose happiness and fulfilment over money, you get to live a very full and meaningful life and amazingly money also seems to almost effortlessly flow towards you. Change your motives; go after what really matters to you and you will get to enjoy the most amazing, complete and abundant life.

Cultivate Relationships with the People Who Matter

Relationships with family and friends must be actively cultivated, like the flowers in a beautiful garden. Developing and sustaining great relationships requires time, effort and imagination. The better, more real and consistent the effort, the easier it is to ensure that the relationship will flourish and grow. The greatest value in life comes from caring for and sharing your life with people that matter.

Give the Gift of your On-going Development to Everyone Around you

Invest time to continually grow who you are. As you become more, you are able to add more value to everyone you touch. When you are on the path of creating the relationships that are going to make your life mean something and support your state of happiness. It is wise to give them the gift of your consistent dedication to personal development and on-going growth.

Grow into Someone of Value

This is the greatest gift you can offer to anyone, because as you become more, as you expand and grow; you become a more valuable friend or relative. You bring more to the relationship. I believe in the adage of “I will take the best possible care of me and you take the best possible care of you, so that we are both better people who can take better care of each other”.

Stop allowing yourself to hide behind the false walls that you have created around yourself. The walls that make you believe that you must pursue money before you can discover happiness. Anything you pursue will always elude you. The walls that you think will keep the unhappiness your current circumstances are causing you are the very same walls, which are keeping you trapped in mediocrity. Until you break down these artificial walls, which you have created as a barrier to anything breaking into your self-imposed comfort zone. An artificial barrier will always hold you away from your potential, block out the joy you deserve and most certainly keep the money you desire from flowing to you. You will continue to live an unfulfilled and empty life.

Break the bonds right now and allow yourself to begin to soar toward your joy and unlimited potential. All that is required is a small shift in the way you view things and the way you do things and you will almost immediately begin to see the most remarkable things manifest in your life. You have so much to gain and nothing to lose but frustration and dissatisfaction. Pull the trigger and let your true authentic self-free, allow yourself to become the person you see in your dreams.

Author's Bio: 

Hi my name is Andrew Horton; I am an inspirational Speaker, Master Teacher, Radio and TV Host, Global Traveler and Author. My area of focus is in the field of human behavior, expanded awareness and enlightenment. I travel the planet constantly researching, learning and seeking ways to unlock the mysteries of the human mind. I delve into the inner workings of the universe, always looking for ways to understand my role in making things better and contributing to the improvement of the human experience. Please visit my website to sign up for a daily inspirational message, by following this link Daily Inspirational Message . This is your daily call to action, a reminder to do things better each day. Visit my website at http://www.andrewhorton.co.za