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Are You in a Relationship with a Victim?

Written by Dr. Judith Orloff

Topic: Relationship AdvicePublished August 20, 2009
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We live in such challenging times, it is tempting for people to lapse into feeling like a victim. In Emotional Freedom I discuss "The Victim" and how to compassionately deal with coworkers, family, and friends who lapse into this mode. I also discuss ways to notice these tendencies in ourselves too. We may not mean to become a victim, we may even "know better," but still we do. The beauty of emotional freedom is that we can recognize this lapse quickly and take positive steps to remedy the situation. However, many people aren't aware of being stuck in victim mode, nor do they know how draining they can be. It's important to learn strategies for kindly but firmly setting limits with the "victims" in your life. Hope you enjoy my new You Tube video on "How to Deal with a Victim."Judith Orloff MD, a psychiatrist and intuition expert, is author of the new book Emotional Freedom: Liberate Yourself From Negative Emotions and Transform Your Life (Harmony Books, 2009) Her other bestsellers are Positive Energy, Intuitive Healing, and Second Sight. Dr. Orloff synthesizes the pearls of traditional medicine with cutting edge knowledge of intuition, energy, and spirituality. She passionately believes that the future of medicine involves integrating all this wisdom to achieve emotional freedom and total wellness. She is an Assistant Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at UCLA and has been featured on The Today Show, CBS Early Show, CNN, and in Oprah Magazine and USA TodayGet your copy of Emotional Freedom with 100+ free gifts from Dr. Judith Orloff and many other transformational leaders: http://judithorloff.com/emotional-freedom-promotion

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