It was time for my yearly eye exam and I decided to change my Ophthalmologist. I needed to find an optical shop closer to home.

I spent a lot of time finding this particular optical shop and was happy that the shop was conveniently located, had plenty of parking available, and was open during the evenings and weekends.

When I called to schedule the appointment, the receptionist was very pleasant and accommodating. Convinced that I had found the perfect place for all of my optical needs, I scheduled my appointment.

On the day of the appointment, a friendly employee at the front desk greeted me. She took all of my pertinent information and asked me to “Take a seat, the Doctor will be with you soon.”

Things quickly went down hill from there.

The Doctor greeted me with a loud, “Next victim”! I guess this was my cue to go into his office, which I did.

The actual exam was quite uneventful. When it was over, he uttered, “Let’s get to why you’re really here; to get contact lenses”.

No, why I’m really here is to get my annual eye exam. I never mentioned needing contact lenses; but I guess he knew better than I why I scheduled an appointment with him.

The kicker was when the doctor led me out of his office, and in the public waiting area bellowed, “Have a good day and stay out of jail”.

Have a good day and stay out of jail? Hmmm. Not sure what it was about me that made him think that I might be prone to being on the wrong side of the law…

In case you’re wondering, I’ll never go back to this optical shop. And, I’ve told everyone who would listen about my experience. Of course I can’t tell the story without including the name and location of the optical shop. I don’t want my friends and family members to have the same experience as I had.

I’m guessing that the doctor thought he was being “friendly”, “funny”, “witty”, “familiar”, (choose one). I found him to be “offensive”, “unprofessional”, and “obnoxious”, (choose all).

One of the biggest mistakes that small businesses make is not ensuring that all of their employees are trained to interact with customers in a professional manner.

If you want to retain the customers that you have and benefit from the customers that they may refer your way, it behooves you to set some basic standards relating to your expectations on how to best interact with customers. That includes setting standards as to what type of small talk is appropriate, and examples of what is considered inappropriate. Otherwise, you’re leaving a lot of money on the table, and putting your reputation as a business on the line.

Author's Bio: 

Dianne Shaddock is the Founder of Easy Small Business, a website which provides “Quick and Simple Human Resources Strategies for Small Businesses, Non Profits, and Entrepreneurs. Go to for more tips on how to hire and manage your staff more effectively.

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