Between Men and Women who are to be Blamed for Break ups?

This is a question that almost all people have to ask themselves. What do you think about? Between men and women who are to be blamed for most of the break ups?

I’m not going to weigh heavily on one side. In my perspective what I know is that everyone has a part to play in a relationship. Once a mess happens in a relationship both of partners had a hand in it. It’s not right to lay the blame on one side. If you start asking questions to most of people around you, everyone will come up with very different answers. If you ask them to elaborate their answers to you, you will get surprised because every explanation has its own weight and a piece of truth in it.

So, let me talk about the reasons why no one should blame anyone in the break ups. When you first you both got interested in what you saw. All the common things you had between you and her/him made you to make a move. The fact that you were both in for it, you completely agreed with each other to be together. No one else came in between the two of you and made it to work. It was all on your instincts and the feelings you had for one another.

You made promises to each other to be true and real with each other. So, you all both had responsibilities that you were all supposed to make sure are attended to. The duties were divided to each partner. So, there is no need to blame a man or a woman for the break up. They all had a part in it. We all know it won’t be fair to place the liability to one end.

In this life for anything to happen or for a change to occur there has to be something that triggered that change. The change will never happen on its own. For instance for a plant to grow well on the land, the farmer has to make sure that there is plenty of fertilizers present for that plant to grow healthy. He/she also has to make sure there is much water present for irrigation. In this way, the farmer triggered the change by supplying something that the plant needed for it to grow.

What I’m trying to mean is that nothing can happen without one end having something to do with it. This is definitely true. If you look in every day’s cycle of activities that people involve themselves in there is always a causative agent of it. So, there is no need to blame someone whenever a mess happens in a relationship. The first thing you have to ask yourself is who caused it.

A break is always contributed by all partners. For instance, let me talk of the cheating incidences that keep on happening in relationships. After this simple examples and elaboration you will completely have a clue why I’m basing my point on no one is to be blamed for break ups in the relationships.

Who triggers the break up?

Will you blame your partner for your relationship to come to an end? Will you blame yourself that it was your fault why he or she walked away? Think deep of what made him or her to change first. When the break up has happened go back in time like one month before it happened. Now, start to think of how you used to behave before your partner. Was he/she happy with the way things were going on?

If she/he wasn’t okay with how your relationship was going on, ask yourself, what was the cause of that? In most cases you will find out that one of the partner in that relationship triggered things that made the state of relationship to change. So, before one person in the relationship took a step forward and decided to cheat there was already one part of the relationship going sideways. All of you have a part in that break up, so there is no one to be blamed for it.

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