Confessions of a Professional Dater - Dating Advice For Women

A lucky few are born charmer while for most attracting and dating men has always remained a puzzle. If you have not been so fortunate with men, here is some help to assist you in mastering the art.

So, you are getting ready to get into the dating scene and you want to know the ins and outs of it, right? You know there are probably some rules of dating that your mother didn’t tell you and your friends know but aren’t going to share. So here are the rules of dating that you aren’t going to hear anywhere else. First thing to remember is you gotta look good when you are going out. Now this doesn’t mean you have to buy brand new clothes and go into debt. Use what you have! A new accessory added to a current outfit can give it a whole new look. Even if you aren’t going out on a date, dress for dating success whenever you go out. After all, in order to get a boyfriend you have to catch that lucky guy’s eyes. Looking good is gonna do just that!

Secondly, you want to do when you are entering the dating scene is to leave some mystery about yourself. Don’t tell him everything. Men are driven wild by women who have an air of mystery. Sex isn’t everything in a relationship. That being said, you don’t want to start having sex with your man on the first date. W hat does that leave you to look forward to? Sex is the big thing, the big bang, pun intended. After that, well, there’s not a lot to look forward to. So leave that for after you have been dating for a while, or you are engaged or something. There are things that you can do just as fun that aren’t intercourse.

Be the roadrunner, not the coyote. Sorry, I couldn't help myself. Anyway, this simply means is that you are the one who needs to be chased instead of you being the one who is doing the chasing. If you chase a guy instead of him chasing you, then chances are you are going to find him running away from you as fast as he can. Don’t give up all of the things that you love because of a man you are dating. For example, don’t stop seeing your friends because you are dating someone. If your relationship with the guy doesn’t work out and you have snubbed your friends, you may find yourself with no one. Make sure that you are still spending time with your friends and letting them know that they are important.

Remember, you are a beautiful woman and you need to show all those guys out there that you are the one that they want. Go out there looking wonderful, showing the guys that you are confident, and let the guys be the ones that are chasing you and not the other way around. Make your guy wait for sex and don’t tell your guy everything about yourself. Guys love to date a woman that has some mystery to her.

Remember these tips and go out on a manhunt. See what you are going to lure in with your bait – yourself!