Dating and The Phone Call
Written by Merry C. Battles
DATING
Dating. Who ever invented such a morbid institution?
When one meets, all hopes open.
Will this be the big #1?
First date goes well.
A kiss, a sweet kiss.
Sometimes a passionate one.
Then the lady waits.
She waits by that phone.
How many years does one wait
For that damn phone to ring?
Then there are those who call him.
But too much of that leads to chasing,
And God forbid they should be chased.
One cannot open the heart too soon.
Otherwise it may be shattered even sooner.
The game of chase has begun.
And only the male has to feel like
He has caught his mate.
Oh for the romances
Where one can openly and immediately say
"Wow, you are beautiful,
In all that you do,
And almost immediately I love you."
THE PHONE CALL
I mean really
Sitting here at one a.m.,
Waiting for that damn phone to ring.
Here I sit.
Something is unfair.
Something is not equal.
Why all this time,
Sitting by the phone.
Twenty years out of my life.
And I sit and wait.
Sometimes patiently.
Sometimes in despair.
Sometimes to say with my heart
I do hope he calls.
Other times to say,
To hell with him.
If he doesn't see someone special
Who needs him?
But yet I sit and wait.
With that phone stuck to my hip,
Going in every room I walk in,
Waiting for that familiar ring.
Last night it was a wrong number.
Copyright 2017 Merry C. Battles
Article author
About the Author
Merry C. Battles has worked in the healing arts since 1976. She has practiced the art of massage, Jin Shin Jyutsu (an ancient form of Japanese Acupressure), CranioSacral Therapy, Reiki, and foot reflexology. Merry is the author and illustrator of "Christmas Meditations on the Twelve Holy Days December 26-January 6" Her book can be purchased at Amazon.com and Kindle Books. merrybattles.com
email merry@merrybattles.com
Further reading
Further Reading
Article
Distinguishing Vital Vibrations from Soul Vibrations
we tend to attribute passion, motivation, charisma, energy to the soul, but most of the time, these are expressions of the energy of the vital nature, perhaps tinged by the soul's influence to some degree.
October 7, 2026
Article
Is It Possible for the Mind to Recognise the Presence of the Soul in Another Person?
perceiving the action of the soul by the mind is only possible under specific conditions.
October 7, 2026
Article
Changing the Driving Force of Action from the Mind and Vital Nature to the Psychic Being and its Guidance
the spiritual seeker works to overcome the pressure and habits of the external nature driven by the desires of the vital and ambitions of the mind, by contacting and following the quiet guidance of the soul
October 6, 2026
Article
Listening to the Voice of the Soul Rather Than the Voice of the External Mental and Vital Nature
The mental and vital elements of the being work together to fulfill the desires. The knowledge base used is by reference and is limited. The solution is to shift to the standpoint of the soul which is capable of 'knowledge by identity'
October 4, 2026