Dating sites and school of life

Nowadays we attend to classes of a lot of schools during our life. First kindergarten, than school, college, university, followed by an endless series of classes to improve our job performance and last, soft skill classes, one of the most profitable businesses of the moment. So we find soft skills courses to improve our language, communication, friendliness and personal habits. But when we draw the line and think of our personal life, we start wondering: are there really any classes that will help me choose my partner, maintain the relationship, get back on my feet after a bad breakup? The answer hits: No. A school of life hasn’t been invented yet. Yes, there are life coaches that can guide us through the good and the bad, but are they really effective? Because it is our born nature to make mistakes, to choose with our hearts, not with our heads, no matter what our mother, friends, colleagues, life coaches, therapists, acquaintances tell us. The truth hurts, but we have to recognize it: we are responsible of our lives and we are absolutely alone in search of a partner. Lesson number 1: Our kind of search of the perfect match can’t be categorized as “good” or “bad”. Each has a way, and that may be the right way. Of course, we must not refuse any help. The help in this king of search these days has a simple name: dating sites. There are million opportunities there, as long you choose one of the best dating sites that can guide you through your search. Lesson number 2: Take this set of words and give them a personal meaning: couple, money, friends, relationship, independence, liberty, fun and home. After you put it together in a context, you may find the relevant answer to your search, what does really matter for you, not for others. After you think very well about this criteria, enter the dating site you chose before, enter these things you really want from life and, with a little patience, you will find that special someone that fits the image pictured by you. I heard someone say we are sent in life like a chicken on the highway. The only conclusion here is that we must prepare ourselves for our life and choose carefully.