Dear Dr.Romance: 

i wear make up skinny jeans hollister shirts cardigans uggs and converse or just boots I love to act sing dance I'm a gr8t actress I'm always working out love to run I'm smart funny short brown hair sometimes jewlery now I have a crush on someone I always talk to him we laugh sometimes I sit next to him at lunch and stuff he seems interested but he won't ask me out last time we talked he was about to ask me to the dance but he didn't idk why but yeh so now I'm just wondering what I can do for him to like me.

Dear Reader:  

We're in the New Millennium, why don't you ask him to have a soda? You don't have to wait. But, after you ask, then let him do the asking next time. Read my article "Asking for What You Want"  You're also way too worried about how you look: laughing and talking and your personality are what will really attract him.  Read "True Beauty: Honor the God or Goddess in You" to get your act straightened out.  You'll also find good ideas for flirting, opening conversations and beginning a relationship in Dr. Romance's Guide to Finding Love Today


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Author's Bio: 

Tina B. Tessina, Ph.D. is a licensed psychotherapist in S. California since 1978 with over 30 years experience in counseling individuals and couples and author of 13 books in 17 languages, including It Ends With You: Grow Up and Out of Dysfunction; The Unofficial Guide to Dating Again; Money, Sex and Kids: Stop Fighting About the Three Things That Can Ruin Your Marriage, The Commuter Marriage, and her newest, Love Styles: How to Celebrate Your Differences. She writes the “Dr. Romance” blog, and the “Happiness Tips from Tina” email newsletter.