Dear Dr. Romance:

My girlfriend does not like phone sex. When ever bring the topic she is always mad at me. I don't know maybe it's the way her ex treated her. Please help

Dear Reader:

You can't have phone sex with your girl if she doesn't like it, and you can't force her to like it. Instead, you have to make it attractive to her.  So, turn on your charm, find out how she feels about it, instead of just trying to talk her into it. If it is about the way her ex treated her, you need to listen to her, and let her tell you about it.  "Getting to Yes" helps you understand how to talk to her about phone sex and sex in general. Dr. Romance's Guide to Finding Love Today will show you how to develop a mutually satisfying relationship.It gives you scripts and guidelines for talking about sex in a productive way.
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Author's Bio: 

Tina B. Tessina, Ph.D. is a licensed psychotherapist in S. California since 1978 with over 30 years experience in counseling individuals and couples and author of 13 books in 17 languages, including It Ends With You: Grow Up and Out of Dysfunction; The Unofficial Guide to Dating Again; Money, Sex and Kids: Stop Fighting About the Three Things That Can Ruin Your Marriage, The Commuter Marriage, and her newest, Love Styles: How to Celebrate Your Differences. She writes the “Dr. Romance” blog, and the “Happiness Tips from Tina” email newsletter.