I’ve given many hours of of thought to what it takes to distil into bite sized chunks what gets in the way of being a deliberate creator. I’ve studied, read, practiced, played, created and taught many tools to myself and others to assist them into alignment with their desires.

What I’ve found is that there are three major keys that align us with our desires manifesting. If you have been wanting to become a powerful co-creator of your experience but find you don’t sustain significant progress, consider that:

1) you may not have defined what you want without contradicted energy running simultaneously,

2) you may not be taking the right kind of action, or

3) there are more unconscious beliefs causing you to sabotage and block yourself from lasting results.

What if you are presently creating your life? Are you enjoying the results?

What if you’re deliberately trying to design your life but don’t like what you’re getting?

And what if you can’t blame the economy, your Ex-spouse, your teenager, or politicians for any of it?


I know it can be a tough pill to swallow. But along with the fact that you can’t blame anyone (not even yourself) for what you’re living, you can derive a tremendous amount of personal power when you’re willing to take responsibility for the life you have now.

Taking responsibility means you’ve taken your power back. Now you can start directing your life in a meaningful way. What are those three powerful keys to deliberate creation?

Key Number 1 – Clarify Your Desire

Get crystal clear about what you want. Ask yourself these questions: What do I want? Why do I want it? How will it feel when I have what I want? Answering these questions will help you get clear about what you want. Just be clear, is what you want a goal that belongs to you or someone else? Do you want it from the point of view of scarcity and fear, or does that desire pull you into joyful action?

Key Number 2 – Take Actions that Inspire

When your desires are clear it’s easy to take aligned and inspired action. We were taught that working hard, struggle and striving built character. It doesn’t work that way with inspired action. With inspired action you may be putting in long hours, but it’s fun, time flies. You’d willing do that action all day – every day.

And … Most Important of All!

Key Number 3 – Get the Static Off the Wire

You’ve heard a radio station that’s not tuned in properly. The static is the resistance, the noise, the impedance, the blockage. It shows up as the inner critic, limiting self-talk, the conscious and unconscious programs that keep us apart from our desires manifesting.

You must surface up unconscious and limiting beliefs that block your from lasting success – the noise, limiting self-talk, inner critic – the static is the resistance. It’s keeping you from what you want.

Limiting beliefs can feel like they have a strangle-hold on you. Addressing them is not usually a one time event. You can soften their grip by asking yourself some questions. “Is that my truth? Where did that belief come from? Who’s voice is telling me that’s true?”

We’ve all inherited a large portion of our world view from our elders. It takes some guidance, persistence, kindness (to self) and patience. Mastering your mindset is possible, and like anything that takes mastery you owe it to yourself to adopt a daily practice that supports this kind of thinking.

Fortunately, there is a growing audience of people who are taking their brain, their mind and personal power back. We have reached critical mass on planet earth. The most important part is that you remain consistent, deliberate and kind to yourself and have fun on your journey. All is well and getting better.

Author's Bio: 

Nanette Geiger is a Law of Attraction Coach and author of many books and articles focusing on Relationships, the Law of Attraction and Self-Mastery. More helpful resources and information at her site: