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Desire or Go with the Flow?

Written by Deepak Chopra

Topic: Self RealizationPublished August 24, 2009
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Question: Hi, my question is I know we are responsible for all we experience in life, I have my desires, my dreams, but they don’t seem to happen, at times I think well maybe I'm not doing things right, I'm not following the steps, but then I think no, things always happen the way they should be, I believe this and feel this, like my higher self knows better what I need to learn, so relax and enjoy life. Sometimes when I think about free will I get anxious because I think ok I want this to happen, so I have to do this, do that, but I feel I need to flow with life. I mean if we are all one, this oneness doesn't it knows better than me, more than the ego me? Thanks so much for answering my question :) Answer: rnAs the higher Self becomes more awake, your individual awareness becomes more attuned to the Universe. In this way, your desires, free will, and dreams become Nature’s desires. What you want to happen is what the Universe wants to happen. So you can flow with life while you still express your desires. rnLove,rnDeepak

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