You ALWAYS Get What You Want

The role of the subconscious in secretly shaping yourn life.

If you’re like me, you’re probably thinking “I definitely don’t always getn what I want!” I hear you, but hang in there a minute, open your mind, and letn me show you how you do always get what you want.

One of the definitions of the verb “want” is “to fail ton possess” (Merriam Webster’s Dictionary). So what you want is what you fail to possess.n If you have it, you can’t want it. Logically, you can’t want, or fail ton possess, something you already have. OK, now let’s look at how that secretn influence, the subconscious mind, works to help you have everything you want,n everything you lack.

Your Subconscious Mind

Your subconscious mind’s job is to make sensen of the world. It makes sure you live in sane world. It hates it when the worldn you live in doesn’t agree with its ideas of the world. If you think aboutn a time when the world didn’t make sense, you’ll feel what I’m talking about.n Did you like looking at a world that didn’t make sense? No! Of course not!n It feels bad, so you try to make sense of it, or more accurately, your mindn does.

Bearing this action of the subconscious andn the definition of want - “to fail to possess” - what conclusion do you comen to? Think about it for a moment and see if your mind will allow you to maken the connection.

Making it Right

What you fail to possess is what your subconsciousn considers necessary to make the world the place it should be. And it doesn it’s best to make sure you have it. So what you have that doesn’t agree withn your subconscious idea of what you should have, your subconscious gets ridn of. Whatever you don’t possess but your subconscious believes you should have,n it creates. If, for example, you have the common subconscious model from childhoodn that relationships are full of pain, your subconscious will make sure youn have that which you fail to possess, what you should possess – a painful relationship.n It’s what you want. It’s a subconscious want, but remember,n what you don’t know you can’t control.

Subconscious by definition is that which youn are not aware of. By definition is it also everything you can’t be aware of,n because when you are aware of it, it is conscious. How then can you controln your subconscious mind? By making it conscious. Soundsn simple in theory, but how do you make the subconscious conscious in everydayn life? (This is the hard part that most people don’t want to admit to) Go on,n have a guess – how do you tell what your subconscious mind is thinking? It’sn simple – you can see what your subconscious is thinking by looking with honestn eyes at what has been created in your life. Everything you have, or fail ton have, in your life that is contrary to your conscious desires, must have beenn created by something that you are not aware of, something that is subconscious.n Yes, your subconscious mind. It kindly created itn for you because you wanted it. You failed to possess that which would maken sense of the world and your subconscious stepped up and gave it to you. Andn you didn’t appreciate it, you ungrateful boy or girl!

What to do about it

Looking at what you have but don’t want, andn what you don’t want but have, will tell you what subconscious beliefs youn have to unearth, make conscious and change. There are many self-help methodologiesn to help you do this. Find the method that works for you and make it a partn of your life to examine your subconscious beliefs and change them.