So you want to know how you could get a good boyfriend. That’s not surprising because every girl is searching for Mr. Right. But what exactly do you need to do to find this Mr. Right?

• First of all, you need to be content and happy. If you want to get a good boyfriend, then you need to focus on yourself before being with someone else. If you’re not happy and comfortable with who you are, then you can’t expect anyone to be happy and comfortable with you.

• Look at the relationships that your girlfriends have. How long have they been together with their men? Maybe you could ask them a few pointers on what makes their relationship successful.

• Make a list of what you are looking for. Don’t just settle for anyone. If you want a long-term relationship, then you can’t just choose a guy that “will do.”

• Make sure you no longer have any relationship baggage or issues. If you’re not over your ex, then don’t go looking for a new relationship. You will end up comparing the new guy to your ex and this would only offend him.

• Don’t rush into things and don’t be discouraged if you didn’t find the guy right immediately. Looking for Mr. Right usually doesn’t happen with the snap of your fingers. In fact, he may come when you least expect him.
You now have the tools for finding Mr. Right. But your journey doesn’t end there.

Every girl wants to end up with a guy that would really love her and would be perfect for her. She wants someone that would last, not a summer fling that would be over when the season ends. She wants someone who will genuinely return her feelings.

What are the tell-tale signs that this guy is really a good boyfriend?

Is he committed?

Infidelity is a sore topic. You trust him to return your feelings so cheating is the last thing you would expect from a relationship. Make sure that the guy you’re in love with is committed to you and loves you as well.
Friend first

One of the reasons why you should take your time is because it pays to be friends first. If he is your friend first and boyfriend later, then you will really get the chance to get to know him. As friends, you would learn to be comfortable around each other and share things without any worries. It’s comforting knowing that when you’re feeling down, then you could count on him to be there.


They say that the main ingredient in a relationship is communication, and they’re right. You should be able to tell him anything without worrying about him judging you. You should be able to share your problems and open up your feelings. A good boyfriend would be there listening to you and offering his support.

Is he a romantic?

Does he like to show his affection through gestures and physical touch? A good boyfriend is sometimes romantic. He would hug you, give you a gentle caress, maybe even leave you love notes. He would also give you a gift even if there’s no occasion.

Accepts you for who you are

Did you get a good boyfriend? You did if he accepts you for who you are, quirks, flaws, and everything. If he respects you and your privacy and loves your little quirks and flaws, then you know you hit the jackpot.

Author's Bio: 

Ashley Kay is a dating and relationship expert who runs a popular free online newsletter that helps women and men have the relationship they want, minus the heartache and drama.