Sex is something that is very special to women, something that should be very memorable and unfading, that's why their first time is always very critical. So don't expect your girl to jump right into bed with you in flash --- especially if she's a virgin. Now, virginity issues have changed during the course of time and more and more women would agree that virginity has nothing to do with love --- if you love her, virgin or not, you love her. End of discussion. But still, there are many of us who treasure this little "gift" and make the most of it. So to calm your senses, let me share with you her top 5 secrets about having sex --- get to unravel how the female mind works when it comes to the art of lovemaking:

* Will it hurt the first time? We all heard of the old tales that a girl should definitely bleed during her first sexual intercourse --- if she doesn't then she wasn't virgin anymore. This has long been corrected stating that whether a woman bleeds or not, it really depends on her physical activities --- the hymen may be broken way before she has sex. But still, most women today do think that they should bleed on their first time --- but don't worry when she freaks out if she doesn't.

* Virginity issues. Virginity is a choice. Even men don't get all dramatic when their girlfriends are no longer virgins. Technically, virginity disappears the moment your hymen is teared and that's it. Love and passion has nothing else to do with it. But you shuld put in mind that every woman still wishes they lose it to someone they love.

* If she can reach orgasm. Most women don't reach orgasm the first time they do it so this can be a very big issue. They can be get too anxious and worried about it so much that might just lead them not to enjoy the sex at all. This can have a lot to do with you --- that's why make it a mission. Get her to reach it the first time and your sex life together will definitely have a brighter future.

* If you love her. At one point in your little lovemaking, it suddenly flashes in her mind if you love her. Even if it's a one nigh stand or an impulse sex with an acquaintance, most women will definitely have the urge to wonder. You see, women are always emotionally linked to whatever they do so when she does agree to have sex with you, take it as more than just carnal urges.

* How many women have you slept with? Sooner or later, this question will definitely pop out in the open. Most women would say that it's a big turn on when they lose their virginity to someone who has past experiences with other women but as time goes by, she would insist in trying to know the deeper levels of affection with you and your past girls. Don't worry --- curiosity is harmless. Just answer her honestly when she asks.

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Author's Bio: 

Steffi Hall is a seduction and attraction expert who teaches men how to attract and pick up beautiful women. As a former model who has been sought after by many men, Steffi has the experience in passing on the skill of attraction, since she was a target of many men herself. There is no better teacher then the target itself, learn from the source.

Steffi Hall works in conjunction with Mark Taylor.