If your preference is to be dating Asian women, join the club. I've been dating Asian women for many years, in America and during my frequent overseas travels, and I have carefully crafted a set of tactics and principles that you should follow if you want to learn how to date Asian women (or take your success rate to a whole new level!)
Be aware, there are some differences in how you should go about flirting with Western women, versus Asian girls. With Western women, my usual style is to be a brash, playful "bad boy" -- I'll make fun of women and playfully critique them, in order to let them know I'm not so impressed with them. You see, I usually give girls the sense that they need to impress ME.
This means you don't her questions directly (instead of giving a direct answer, play it off with a joke); never asking HER the typical queries ("so what's your name," "where are you from," etc), and using CREATIVE conversation instead; and it also means teasing women and "busting on them" from time to time. Not in a severe, vulgar way, but in a good-humored manner that implies something very essential to her: that you're not a typical guy who is hoping to impress her and "win" her.|One way to do this is to never answer a girl's questions directly. Instead, you always sidetrack her questions with jokes (i.e. "What do I do for a living? I'm a lion tamer.")
And, you don't ask her typical questions (such as "where are you from," etc.) You With Western women, it's important for you to take command of the conversation and steer it down the right path, and this means turning the tables and playfully busting on them. This demonstrates that you're definitely not an average dude.
So the question is, should you look at dating Asian women the same way? The answer is, in some cases you will use a similar style of flirting. But there are some changes you will need to make to your "game."
A specialized approach is required to successfully pick up most Asian women, and much of this has to do with their society and upbringing. When they were growing up, there's no doubt they watched a ton of "romantic serials" on television. (In America, we call them "soap operas.") The plot of these shows always has to do with a handsome, sensitive guy who is madly in love with a girl, but there are challenges that he must overcome.
The usual storylineinvolves a desperately attempting to "win" the girl, but she keeps rebuffing him -- but he keeps itrying until he does something remarkable to "touch her heartIn the end, she finally relents and they share a passionate kiss and embrace, and presumably live happily ever after (blah, blah).
This stuff may sound corny to you, but Asian women are raised to believe in it. And so, they expect men to "court" them.
Of course, there are Asian women who are less traditional and will date "bad boy"-type men. But most high-quality Asian women, since they never want to shame themselves or their families, won't be seen in public with a foreign guy who dresses shabbily and has lots of visible tattoos.
This also means that you can't approach her like a "pickup artist" would, using lines and routines on her and trying to quickly escalate to a physical level.
Indeed, the rules of attraction and seduction do change a bit when you are dating asian women.
But it's absolutely OK to pay an Asian women a compliment on how nice she looks. With American women, I don't advise you to do this. (They take this as a sign that you're just another desperate guy trying to hook up with them.) Asian women, however, because they are so wonderfully feminine and take pride in how they look at all times, will be genuinely appreciative of a sincere compliment.
(Although she may act shy, and blush when you tell her, this just means that you've touched her emotionally.)
With Asian women, it's also very important to demonstrate masculine behavior. Asian women want to be around a masculine presence, because they are so utterly feminine. It's one of the things we all appreciate most about Asian women: they are totally feminine in nature and appearance. This is not the case with a lot of American women these days. Not only do they want to "wear the pants" in the relationship, they'll also adopt a masculine style of dress -- such as wearing baggy sweatpants and baseball caps. You simply will never see an Asian woman dressing this way, even if she's just going to the store.
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