A Few New Ideas For Developing Relationships. Excerpt from "101 Ways To Romance A Pretty Woman."

A Few New Ideas Here:

Some Do's:

A. Always keep a good sense of humor.

B. Read novels. That way you will have a new topic of discussion every time you meet. Become a story teller.

C. Talk about the things that are most important to her, but don't be judgmental or give advice unless asked for your opinion.

D. Always listen carefully to what she has to say, even if you think you've heard it before. Once she makes you an offer, she most likely will not repeat that offer more than once. So be ready!

E. Never take what she says too seriously or act immediately on what she considers to be a crisis. Ask questions first to determine the seriousness of the situation. Some tend to vent more often than most men. Also, female biology causes periodic mood swings from confidence, to fearfulness, to anger. Accept these hormonal changes as part of the territory. We are all subject to the laws of nature.

F. Observe her behavior to see if it is consistent with her words. Her behavior should taken in context with her words. Act according to her behavior, rather than her words. Because of most female's instinctive psychological nature, many women tend not to reveal the true nature of their feelings. Rather than risk being hurt by revealing her true feelings, she will misdirect her love
in the hopes that he will be able to see beyond her duplicity. In such a case, she is looking for a man who truly understands what she really wants, even though she refuses to verbally reveal those desires. He must be confident enough to "act upon what he knows to be true" rather than anything that she might say. Pretentiousness is not unfamiliar to feminine kind, so be alert to her true intentions..

G. Understand that women do not go on quests to seek out men. More often than not, women position themselves so that males will notice them and respond accordingly. Typical females expect you to understand that "as the man, fulfilling the male role", you must initiate the proper responses to her positioning moves. Thus, the only way to know if she truly likes you is through prolonged eye contact and flirtatious smiles. If you are in direct communication, she might reach over and touch your hand during the conversation. Let her know that you want her physically, then back-off emotionally. Let her make the next move. When and if she reacts positively, then immediately request a rendezvous. The sooner, the better. By waiting too long to respond, you may be viewed as reluctant. Thus, she will soon make herself available to other males.

H. Truly, it is passion that makes the world go round. Appeal to her animal instincts in a very passionate, yet psychological way. Read those books and watch those movies which illustrate the art of passionate seduction. Ultimately, you must appeal to her flesh, not her intellect.

I. Seek first to understand, and then to be understood.

J. Make friends with some of her female friends. Go out with them on occasion. Most women feel most comfortable around those men with whom they are well acquainted. Many women see dating complete strangers as a desperate move.

K. Enough can not be said about keeping eye contact and enthusiasm when you speak.