How To Get What You Want
Written by Masha Malka
"The greatest discovery of my generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitudes of mind." n– William James (1842–1910 pioneering American psychologist and philosopher)
"You have powers you never dreamed of. You can do things you never thought you could do. There are no limitations in what you can do except the limitations of your own mind". n– Darwin P. Kingsley (1906–1930 American business leader)
Have you ever found yourself wondering why someone who is not as smart, not as good looking, not as creative, not as connected, not nearly as 'good a person' as you, seems to have it all…while you, who seems to give, give, give, and do, do, do, are still struggling? Or maybe you heard someone else say that?
The answer is simple; what one person possesses and the other doesn't, has nothing to do with what that person has or does…it concerns that person's MINDSET. The mindset is the belief system that people operate with, determining what they experience, what they do, what they have and who they are as people.
For you to attract money, good health, loving relationships, or anything else you desire, you have to develop a mindset that will allow your desires to flow freely into your life.
Action steps:
1. The best way to develop a mindset that allows you to have what you want is to study the mindsets of people who already have what you want.
2. Changing your thoughts and beliefs changes your life! Be positive, optimistic and grateful. Rather than worry and attract negative events, project into the future what you WANT to experience.
3. Be congruent. Align all your thoughts, beliefs and actions in the direction you want to go. For example, if you want to be wealthy but think that money is dirty or that rich people are selfish, then you are not congruent.
4. Finally, know deep in your heart that you deserve to have all that your heart desires! Be comfortable with having it in your mind first and the reality will follow shortly.
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About the Author
Masha Malka is an entrepreneur, author, success coach, international speaker and trainer as well as the mother of 3 children.
Masha has delivered workshops, seminars, written articles and books, and provided personal training and coaching in the field of success and the skill of learning since 1998.
She graduated with Highest Honors from Florida Atlantic University majoring in Elementary Education. She then continued her graduate studies at Capella University completing a graduate certificate in Teaching and Training Online as well as Instructional Design for Online Learning. A life-long student, Masha is currently taking courses for an MBA. She is also a certified trainer in Accelerated Learning Techniques as well as Transformational Thinking.
After years of seminars and workshops with influential leaders such as Anthony Robbins, Brian Tracy, Dr. Thomas Madden, Dr. Bill Gould, Mark Victor Hansen and many others, Masha has developed her own 6-Steps Life-Enhancing Success System that is now changing the lives for the better of many people around the world.
Living and working in the diverse cultures of 6 countries - Russia, USA, Austria, England, Bulgaria and Spain, has given her a unique insight on how to achieve success regardless of the person's background.
Masha has combined her discoveries on learning in an e-book "Discover Your Inbo
Genius" (www.inbo
genius.com/ebook ) where she shares with her readers the tools which will allow them to tap into the unlimited possibilities and potential that they possess.
Her latest book, “The One Minute Coach™: change your life one minute at a time” is making a splash around the world transforming the lives of those who read it! You can read more about it and get your own copy on this site.
Masha is also the founder and writer of the popular weekly newsletter “The One Minute Coach™” where readers can get a weekly dose of inspiration and motivation to take appropriate action steps towards their goals.
Masha Malka deeply believes that we are all potential geniuses and that we are capable of achieving success in ALL areas of our lives leading to greater happiness and piece of mind. She dedicates her life to helping people create balance and fulfillment on the way to their dream lives.
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