How Should I Answer Her Questions? – Small Talk Tips

Attraction. For every single person this word has different meaning. It can describe hundreds of situations and feelings. As you probably know attraction is the most important thing when you want to succeed with women. And how can you build your attraction? Money, fame and power? Well, they sure do help, but 99% of people all over the world do not possess much of any of these three, and yet many of them pull chicks like crazy. Some people will say looks, but it's only first step into attracting woman. The most important thing in building your attractions are WORDS. Handsome guy may create great first impression, but if he spits some stupid and boring lines over and over, girls will evacuate as fast as they can. Here I will give you a few tips about two most popular questions that you will meet almost in every conversation with newly met person. Let's begin with "What are you studying?/What's your job/hobby?" Yep, you can answer "biology" or "marketing" but let's face the fact: this is question used when there is no topic to talk about. So, how you can turn this question into attract bringer? It's pretty easy, but requires a bit of imagination – instead of "biology" you can say: "I'm studying principles of life and exploring natural microcosm". "Marketing"? Nope, "I'm trying to find out what people need and how I can satisfy those needs". Benefits? If you can come up with interesting and ambiguous answer she will probably try to guess what's your job/what are you studying and it will surely interest her – this is next step into attraction! Ok, what about "What's up?". There are two ways to answer it: first you can do the same as with previous question. For example: - What's up? - I'm riding wave of life in rhythm of my heartbeat and dive in opportunities trying to squeeze out of them as much as I can. Sounds dumb? Well, it all depends on your inner game. If you say it with enough confidence it may hook up her interest. Second option: find one random situation that happened to you in last week and dress it up in two-three sentences which can create you a new topics of conversation. Almost every situation more complex than tripping into dog "pie" may develop into long convo. The main thing is to be creative every time when you talk about something - this applies not only to picking up girls but also to everyday communication with your friends and all other people. Would you like to read boring book, or interesting one? rnJust remember one thing: pick up is based on AIDA: Attention, Interest, Desire and Action. If a girl asks you a question – it's attention. Based on how you will answer them, you can interest her. And the more she is interested in you - the bigger is your attraction. Attraction creates desire – you are original and interesting, so she starts to want you. And if you play it well it can lead to action. Try it! Thanks for reading! rnOh! And one more thing! If you've got problem with other questions asked by girls - comment box awaits!