Bars are some of the best environments to pick up women.
Approach girls in bars is easy if you know how to approach them the right way. Keep in mind that hot girls get approached by men constantly at bars, so you've got to make an original approach that distinguishes you from all the others. (My book "Mack Tactics" contains an entire chapter on approach tactics, and gives you clever & wickedly effective openers to use in virtually any situation.).
With that said, here are some tips on how to pick up girls at bars:
1. Don't leave home until you're feeling totally confident about your appearance. You don't have to be an Adonis to get girls' attention, but you still need to look presentable. First impressions are important, after all. If you haven't updated your wardrobe in a long time, go to the mall and have one of the cute salesgirls help you pick out some new threads. Then, go to a proper hair salon (not a cheap barber shop) and get your hair styled. Also, your scent should be attractive; this means get rid of the cheap cologne and start wearing the good stuff (I like Calvin Klein and Bulgari, personally)..
2. From the moment you want into the bar to start picking up girls, you should project confidence. Even if you're shy and nervous, you still need to pretend to be confident. Body language is extremely important; don't slouch, and keep your head held high. Make eye contact with women. Don't only try to interact with the hot girls you want to hook up with; start friendly interactions with other women as you "warm up" and get a feel for the crowd. A lot of other guys in the bar will probably be nervous too, although some are better than hiding it than others. Even if you're faking a good deal of your confidence at this point, you've going to have more success picking up girls than the guys who can't get a handle on their nervousness.
3. You're going to have to learn
how to approach women if you're going to successfully pick up girls when you go out. Unless you're lucky and they approach you first, you are going to have to overcome your shyness and go up to them. Don't only try to target women who are alone; usually, women go out in groups, and approaching groups of women is not big deal when you've got some solid techniques. If she's alone, go up to her, smile, and use one of the openers I explain the "Mack Tactics" book. If she doesn't seem interested, don't bug her. And stop worrying about being "rejected," would you? Tell yourself that there are two types of women in this bar tonight: FUN and BORING. The fun girls will want to talk to you, because you're a fun guy; the boring girls won't want to, but they're boring anyway so who cares. When you're out at bars to pick up girls, this attitude is important to have. And when approaching girls who are in a group, be equally charming to all of them. Even if there's only one you're interested in, you should still be nice to her friends.
4. Next, when you approach a girl and start a conversation your tone of voice -- and the topics you discuss -- should be positive. Only talk about the positive things in your life and not the negative ones. She didn't spend all that time tonight perfecting her hair and makeup, and trying on five different outfits, so that she could come out tonight and talk about boring, depressing stuff. She's here to have fun! You simply need to be the guy who provides FUN in order to make her want to be with you.
5. Never be loud, aggressive or hostile towards other guys when you're out to pick up girls. Go ahead and have fun, but you don't want to be that annoying guy who gets on everybody's nerves. Don't drink anymore alcohol than you can handle. But there is often a fine line between "pleasantly buzzed" and "hammered," and women don't feel comfortable being hit on by guys who seem to be drunk and possibly out of control.
6. Pay careful attention to the people around you, and the social interactions of others. Listen to what girls say in bars and pay attention to everything that they do. In order to pick up girls at bars, you should observe them for a few minutes before approaching them. I came up with some of my best conversational material by listening in on other conversations! I've heard guys use clever openers which I then borrowed, and I've also seen guys make a ton of MISTAKES which I then know to avoid making myself.. So, slow down your pace and don't worry about "making your move" the moment you see an attractive girl. Think like a chess-player and always have your next several moves plotted out in your mind. Picking up girls requires some patience on your part.
These were a few basic rules about how to pick up girls. If you want to learn a ton of great FREE openers to use on women, download the free Mack Tactics guide by clicking here:
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