There are many things and traits that attract women in men. If you ask a group of women, you'll probably get a never-ending list of qualities regarding
what women want in a man.
rnI many of my articles, I discuss the point that women and men have different attraction mechanisms, and different strategies of conversations.rnIn this post I will try to be more practical, and give 4 tips that will help you be the man that every woman wants and dreams of meeting.
Provoking Her Emotions
rnWomen are naturally way more emotional than men. In fact, one of the issues that provoke emotions in women is their relationships with men.rnWomen love being approached by men, they love the attention and interest men give them, and the whole process of pickup creates strong emotions and feelings in the female mind.
rnIn order to succeed in attracting women, you need to provoke emotions. However, most men tend to be very informative and logical in their conversations with women.rnA typical male-female conversation might be like the following:
He: Hi
She: Hi
He: What's up?
She: Cool
He: So, what do you do?
She: I study in college
He: Cool, what do you study?
She: Economics
He: Where do you study?
rnThis kind of conversations is extremely logical, and while men might prefer them, women find them totally boring and unattractive.rnThe man doesn't develop any emotions or feelings in the conversation. It's not just the words and the sentences that he used – it's the whole context. rnIf you don't get a woman into emotional state, you just weren't interesting enough to her.
How to get a girl to like you? – add emotions to your interactions.
Being Unpredictable
rnA great way to provoke emotions is to be unpredictable.rnIf you think about it, most women know exactly how a man is going to behave. In fact, men are pretty predictable in their conversations and acts.
rnI remember that once I approached a girl, and then for some reason I didn't like how she looked, so I stepped backwards and went away.rnThe girl totally didn't expect this to happen, so she simply ran after me to understand why I went away from her.
rnBeing predictable means being boring. Be sure to do things that women will not expect you to do. rnThis might include being late for a date, not answering her calls, or anything else you can think about that will get you out of the regular boring behavior.
Don't Show Clear Signals Regarding Your Interest
rnMost guys will show their interest in a girl. They will tell her how they like her and why.rnHowever,
playing hard to get with women, although it sounds "unfair" in some way, is a great tactic to create emotions and attraction in women.
rnMany studies have shown that women are attracted to men who don't show clear signals, these mysterious guys who they need to chase and impress.rnSo even if you really like a girl, let her wonder, let her fantasize, and make her do some efforts in order to get your attention.rnWe all love challenges, especially when it comes to dating and love. So give your women a challenge, and reveal all of your cards from the start.
Show That You're Not Afraid of Losing Her
rnA great technique to get a girl attracted to you, is to show her that you're not afraid of losing her.rnThis is best done in a playful, funny tone. For example, you can tell a girl: "That's it, I hate you and I'm leaving" or "I think we're not meant to be together" – again, in a playful way.
rnSuch sentences show a woman that you're not afraid of losing her, and that's very attractive and the opposite of being needy.