Approaching women can seem daunting to any man who doesn't know exactly what he is doing with women. If you are letting your low self-esteem with women stop you from meeting the kind of women that you really want to meet, then you could use some approach anxiety advice, too. Learn how to beat approach anxiety as it is happening, and start building the kind of confidence that stops approach anxiety for good with these 3 tips:
1) Take A Break
Usually when most guys attempt to approach a hot girl, their nerves become a factor. Like most men, when you approach a women your heart rate probably increases, your mouth might dry up, you might feel like you cannot move your legs at all... Approach anxiety may not affect you this severely, but some men are definitely hindered this way... and it gets even worse.
To deal with approach anxiety in the moment, you need to take a break and relax before approaching your target. Take a minute or two to clear your mind before approaching her. You always want to appear to be calm and collected around women to make the best impression, so settle yourself before you approach anyone.
2) Pump Your Tires
Confidence is the most important character trait in a woman's eyes. Women judge your masculinity by how calm and confident you remain in different situations.
Real confidence, the kind that women find irresistible, comes from a deep belief system that you have about yourself. People who have poor self-confidence simply don't understand other people. They think, "I'm too fat, ugly, short, broke, etc... to get with that girl."
Knowing how to beat approach anxiety is as simple as building enough confidence so that you stop taking yourself out of the game before even taking a shot. Challenge those false beliefs about yourself. The fact is that women are not as shallow as men. It has been proven that women rate personality much higher than looks in terms of attraction.
The truth is that you have no idea what any particular woman will be attracted to. The whole idea is to go over there and find out. Remember: If you approach a woman, there is always a chance that you will get rejected. However, if you never approach her at all, you are being rejected by YOURSELF 100% of the time.
3) Fake It Until You Make It
Truly confident people are not afraid to try anything, because they always believe that they will come out on top. Confident men are inherently less inhibited, and therefore, more exciting to women. Strive to present yourself as a truly confident man at all times, if you want to learn how to beat approach anxiety and begin to have true success with women.
If you don't have this confidence yet, just fake it. Even if you don't know what you are doing, act like nothing phases you. Even if she catches on, she will think you are sexy for trying something that you didn't know how to do... and this will further confirm to her that you are a truly confident man.
Men who display these traits to women are seen as confident winners, alpha males, bad boys, etc... Confident 'alpha males' have the ability to create a wider array of emotions in a woman than the average guy. Women never really figure out if they like this or not, which is why you stay on their mind all of the time. All they know for sure is that they don't want it to stop.