Every now and then, you will notice that there are guys which have “unique charms” with women. They get women easily and snatch other guys target without dropping a sweat. They attract women simply by being present at the moment. These men are the alpha males and what they capable of are not gifts, it is ability that they learned through hard works. However, know that understanding how to become alpha male isn't rocket science and if you willing to put some efforts into it, you can become one too.

If you wish to learn how to become alpha male, here is the first rule: leave beta male characteristic that might have implanted in you since you were a boy. I’m talking about the majority of the guys way of thinking currently; they want the most beautiful girl they’ve seen but lack the confidence to put themselves on the same level as her.

The “you’re so beautiful with so many guys after you and I’m below you” idea is exactly why beta male only get leftover girls. If you approaching a woman and everything that you do (how you speak, your body language, and the way you treat her) reflect that idea, she’ll immediately looks at you as second-rate guy and reject you. In this case, the best thing that you could get is become his closest ‘guy friend’. She will speak to you about all her troubles but won’t permit you to go past that.

When all of the efforts to attract her were unsuccessful, many guys that don’t know how to become alpha male will turn to another common tactic: buying her approval with cash. A bucket of flowers, high-class dinner, become her chauffeur and drive her everywhere, buy her jewelry, clothes, bags, etc. These things are likely to backfire on you; she’ll believe that you’re being manipulative and trying to buy or attract her with money.

Remember this: DO NOT buy a girl anything expensive unless she has done something to deserve it. Picture yourself as an alpha male where you don’t seek for her approval, but already have a great life where it is her loss if she does not want to take part in it.

The second rule on how to become alpha male is never let yourself fall to the “boring guy” category. Yes, maybe you enjoy stock trading, but there's no point to talk about how the most recent policy affects your stocks and things like that. Safe those for your guy friend or you’ll become one of the guys who is talking by himself while his girl chatting with another man over her cell phone.

Having passion is good and actually, women like a man who has “life” and enthusiasm for his job. However, girls need excitement in the conversation; discuss your passion but rule out all of the logical description and involve her in the conversation by asking her viewpoint on various things.

While we are at this topic, allow me to remind you another way on how to become alpha male by keep her excited: NEVER ask for her agreement to have physical contact. An alpha male would never say "can I kiss you" or anything like that. Doing something like that will kill the mood that you've been trying so hard to create.

Asking for her permission will only backfire on you. If she allows the physical contact, she's afraid that you'll see her as "cheap", thus it is safer for her to decline your offer. What you should do is examine her body language, identify it, and go for the kill when the time is right; that including kissing, touching, and sex.

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Every now and then, you will notice that there are guys which have “unique charms” with women. They get women easily and snatch other guys target without dropping a sweat. They attract women simply by being present at the moment. These men are the alpha males and what they capable of are not gifts, it is ability that they learned through hard works. However, know that understanding how to become alpha male isn't rocket science and if you willing to put some efforts into it, you can become one too.

If you wish to learn how to become alpha male, here is the first rule: leave beta male characteristic that might have implanted in you since you were a boy. I’m talking about the majority of the guys way of thinking currently; they want the most beautiful girl they’ve seen but lack the confidence to put themselves on the same level as her.

The “you’re so beautiful with so many guys after you and I’m below you” idea is exactly why beta male only get leftover girls. If you approaching a woman and everything that you do (how you speak, your body language, and the way you treat her) reflect that idea, she’ll immediately looks at you as second-rate guy and reject you. In this case, the best thing that you could get is become his closest ‘guy friend’. She will speak to you about all her troubles but won’t permit you to go past that.

When all of the efforts to attract her were unsuccessful, many guys that don’t know how to become alpha male will turn to another common tactic: buying her approval with cash. A bucket of flowers, high-class dinner, become her chauffeur and drive her everywhere, buy her jewelry, clothes, bags, etc. These things are likely to backfire on you; she’ll believe that you’re being manipulative and trying to buy or attract her with money.

Remember this: DO NOT buy a girl anything expensive unless she has done something to deserve it. Picture yourself as an alpha male where you don’t seek for her approval, but already have a great life where it is her loss if she does not want to take part in it.

The second rule on how to become alpha male is never let yourself fall to the “boring guy” category. Yes, maybe you enjoy stock trading, but there's no point to talk about how the most recent policy affects your stocks and things like that. Safe those for your guy friend or you’ll become one of the guys who is talking by himself while his girl chatting with another man over her cell phone.

Having passion is good and actually, women like a man who has “life” and enthusiasm for his job. However, girls need excitement in the conversation; discuss your passion but rule out all of the logical description and involve her in the conversation by asking her viewpoint on various things.

While we are at this topic, allow me to remind you another way on how to become alpha male by keep her excited: NEVER ask for her agreement to have physical contact. An alpha male would never say "can I kiss you" or anything like that. Doing something like that will kill the mood that you've been trying so hard to create.

Asking for her permission will only backfire on you. If she allows the physical contact, she's afraid that you'll see her as "cheap", thus it is safer for her to decline your offer. What you should do is examine her body language, identify it, and go for the kill when the time is right; that including kissing, touching, and sex.