How can you stop yourself from having thoughts that you don’t want to be having? Well, the answer is you can’t. The reality is that we can’t control the things that pop into our heads; you cannot stop the thoughts from popping into your head. If you can’t believe ask yourself how long have you been trying to control what’s come into your head or trying to stops things that you don’t like popping into your head. If you are trying to achieve the impossible by trying to block you are trying to stop the thoughts from coming in because we don’t have control over the things that pop into our minds. We only have control over what we then do with the things that pop into our minds. For example, whether we decide to listen to it or whether we carry on that thought process or whether we just ignore it and that’s where we have control but we don’t have control over what’s pops into our head.

When you are trying to stop such where our focus goes? Yes, when we are focusing on those thoughts. So by trying not to think about it, you are getting yourself to think about it more and that’s how it becomes such a problem, is that what you can do to stop getting from those thoughts, the sample, and more short and the answer is you do nothing. Yes, it probably sounds like a really unhelpful or difficult thing ridiculous thing to say about thoughts you find disturbing but ultimately that is the shortest answer is that what we want to do with these thoughts that pop up into our heads is we want to do nothing. We want people to ignore it as stop paying attention stop viewing than with meaning or to stop trying to push them away so stop replacing them with other thoughts. We just let the thoughts be there in your head and not pay attention to them.

About considerations, stress, and stress, William James says: "The best weapon against stress is our capacity to pick one idea over another." I simply have one inquiry for you: What's the down to earth utilization of your musings? Indeed? I'm pausing. Still no answer? Precisely. Contemplations have no utilization. 99% of them that is. Which considerations are helpful? Considering how you can tackle issues. An issue is only an unanswered inquiry. Put your cerebrum to utilize and consider how you can take care of issues. There is a great deal of those on this planet. Getting information. That implies this: Try to disguise information and consider how you can utilize that information to improve your life, profession, work, connections, and so forth. That is it. You can overlook each other ideas. In case you're continually thinking, this is on the grounds that you haven't' prepared your brain yet. You HAVE to escape your head. If not, you go mental. Everybody will. No special case. You can choose what you think. Or then again, you can decide NOT to think. Also, that is one of the most significant and most commonsense things you can learn throughout everyday life. Before I discovered that ability, I would go through a long stretch of time inside my head. William James put it best, "A large number of individuals think they are thinking when they are just reworking their biases." The thought originates from Pragmatism, a philosophical convention that began in the nineteenth century in America. Charles Sanders Peirse, who was a Harvard educator, is considered as the 'father of Pragmatism'. Practicality accepts that a brain is an apparatus. Your brain should work for you, not against you. About musings, stresses, and stress, William James, 'the best weapon against stress is our capacity to pick one idea over another.'

People who don’t master their mind, don’t believe it’s possible. They say ’I can’t help but thinking these things.’ Well, you can with enough practice. It’s a skill. You have the ability to decide what you think. Or, you can choose NOT to think. And that is one of the most important and most practical things you can learn in life.

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Dr.Purushothaman [LivingInWellbeing], (Visionary & Director, Centre for Human Perfection, a Centre par Excellence for Mind Programming & Applied Life Themes), M.B.B.S; D.T.M&H; MS; PhD (Psycho) is currently working as a General Surgeon, Spiritual Scientist, Positive Psychologist, Life & Happiness Coach, Positive Health & Wellbeing Trainer, Mentor, Motivator, Master Mind Programmer,A Writer & Consultant to various National & International Organizations.He is currently focusing on the What Why & How Changing Human Habits (A blend of age-old Vision & Wisdom with new-age Scientific Knowledge)
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