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How to create a healthy relationship?

Written by Noah Alam

Topic: Relationship AdvicePublished April 2, 2011
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In the following material, you are going to discover what women are searching really for in a relationship, what you must look for as a mature man and how to achieve it to create a healthy relationship.

This piece of writing is the result of a statement I've made to a friend lately.

He was very eager to find a woman, settle down. He wanted to be in a relationship, and urgently.

Many of you have the same feelings and wishes, relationships are great.

Why this article then?

As I've written before, it came because of a declaratio
I've made.

It is that most men are looking to settle down with a woman on a needy perspective.

After asking him deep hard- to-answer questions, he finally made a stunning confession.

My friend was feeling incomplete!

Yes, that was his motives for wanting to be in a relationship and for his looking eagerly to achieve it.

He told me that his life was empty and without meaning!

My question is why then add to his misery and brings in a woman whose going to find that out and dump him and make his life more miserable??

This is the first point I want to make:

To be in a healthy relationship, you must first have a healthy single life.

By this I mean that you should not be seeking people to make your life complete.

Your life must stand on its own, no woman is needed to make your life great, but by bring in a woman, you will make your life fantastic and exiting.

If you have this mentality and behavior, women will start wanting to be in a relationship with you, they want to be part of your exciting and fulfilled life.

My second point is why then a relationship?

Simply to raise both your self-esteems, yours and hers.

I've had this statement a long time ago:

We men may seem strong and with little feelings, but this is totally a false assumption media and culture want to impose on us in my opinion.

Let me ask you this question to find out more about how to create a healthy relationship?

Can you live on your own in an isolated island?

Many of you will answer yes, it's a male fantasy, but truly, can you?

With no one around for ten, twenty, fifty years?

I don't think any man will make it.

Women may be more sociable than men, but we are sociable too. We need people.

It's simple, we can't survive without a healthy self-esteem and people add to it or take from it.

Look for a woman who's got a high self-esteem, this way you will complement each others and make your life truly amazing.

Stay away from neediness.

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