What if you already have everything you need to create a magnificent business and you just don’t know it? Well, guess what? You do! You already know everything you need to know to be highly successful in business, and to contribute in a meaningful way in your business so you can be truly happy and fulfilled. You just need to learn how to make what you know work for you. You can learn how to resolve the difficulties that stand between you and personal bliss and harmony.

You need to be perfectly honest with yourself and your business relationships. Decide that you aren’t going to participate or practice self-delusion. You are going to take a stand. For example, when something is making you miserable with one of your clients, the situation typically gets worse rather than better. So steer clear of the temptation to be in denial, and to act as if there is nothing wrong, because your problems aren’t just going to go away if you don’t do something about them. More than likely they will get worse before they get better and you will need to face the situation and do something about it.

Rather than letting the situation repeat itself over and over in your head and feeling frustrated, look for a way to negotiate the situation. Find a way to resolve the problem if you want to continue the relationship. Start with asking yourself “Is this the right relationship for you to be in?”

You may be working really hard to do a great job for this client. You have bent over backwards to serve them and you are feeling very frustrated. The right answer might be to do something else, to do it in a different way, or to do it with different people involved-or even all three.

What would it take to resolve this situation and for everyone involved to be happy? How can this be prosperous, caring relationship, with inner peace for both of you? Just imagine that you have no limitations at all.

Ask yourself, “In what other situations in my business, and with whom, am I not perfectly blissful?” Think about every part of your business, and write down every aspect that makes you disappointed or dissatisfied in any way. Remember, the right diagnosis has you half way there. Identifying the unacceptable situations is the first step to changing them. Remember that whatever you give your attention, energy and focus to you will attract more of in your business.
That is how the Law of Attraction works!

In looking over your business, ask yourself “Where and when have you been the most blissful and content? Where were you and with who, and what where you doing?”

Once you answered these questions, think about what you can do, starting now, to begin creating the kind of business that you dream about having. Every single thing you do that moves you closer to your dream business will be rewarding in itself. You’ll become a more positive and optimistic person. You’ll feel more confident and more in charge of your life and you’ll achieve true peace of mind.

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Copyright © 2010.Beverly Boston, Beverly Boston is an Author, Speaker, Trainer, and Master Coach, who champions Solo-preneurs to wake up from autopilot and become highly visible, make themselves heard , charge what they are worth, raise their fees, fill their practices and create “Big Thinking, Big Mind, Big Heart, & Big Life™”, and she can help you too! Visit her blog at http://www.BeverlyBoston.com to learn more details. While there, sign up for the free Big Thinker ezine and my blog so you never miss a single post! Get in touch with Beverly at 604-727-4363 begin_of_the_skype_highlighting              604-727-4363      end_of_the_skype_highlighting.