In 2013 an estimated 44.7 million people in the US population were 65 years old or older and that number is only expected to grow. Today, many families are opting to move aging parents into their own homes so they can help with daily care and treatments. While living with your parent again is a great way to enjoy some family bonding, it is important to know that this transition will require some adjustment for everyone. Moving is stressful, not just because of the boxes and travel, but the adjustment period as well. These strategies will help ease those first few weeks so your parent feels comfortable in their new place.

Discuss Responsibilities Early

No one likes feeling as if they are a burden, and your parent may be worried about how they will be able to contribute to the family. If possible, hold an initial meeting before moving day to discuss everyone’s expectations. For example, your loved one may help with tidying the kitchen after dinner, or they may play with the grandkids while you catch up on work in the evenings. Ask the kids what chores they will help out with as well.

Decorate for Comfort

Most seniors have to downsize when they move into a new home but it is important to keep some personal mementos. Encourage your loved one to decorate their room with favorite photos, plants, and other items that nurture their spirit. If you have space for their favorite chair or bed, then bring that along, too. You might have to install extra bars, railings, and handles in their room or bathroom if there are mobility issues. Ask your doctor about other equipment that might be necessary as well like monitors or blood pressure pumps. A home nurse can help you operate more advanced equipment if you aren’t trained.

Ask for Their Input

Making decisions together will help your parent feel like an important member of the family so try to include them in your planning as much as possible. For example, you could ask your parent where they would like to eat for dinner, or you could ask their opinion regarding colors when you are painting a room. You could even take them on vacations if their health and time permits. They will feel honored that you value their opinion and that you consider them an active part of the household.

Plan for Long-Term Help

In the excitement of moving, you may have overlooked your parent’s needs will change in the upcoming years thought it is likely they are very aware of what the future may hold. Help ease their concerns about end-of-life care by exploring the options available for hospice or Corner Home Medical home care in your area. This way, your loved one can relax and know that their wishes will be honored when the time comes.

With a little planning and sensitivity, the first few weeks after moving your parent can be a wonderful time of bonding. Although it is certain to be a learning experience for everyone, giving your parent control over their own space and making them feel valued will ensure that they adjust quickly to their new living arrangement.

Author's Bio: 

Hannah Whittenly is a freelance writer and mother of two from Sacramento, CA. She graduated from the University of California-Sacramento with a degree in Journalism. She interviews with small businesses and educational institutions regularly to learn new career building strategies.