How To Kiss For Guys

Being a great kisser isn’t something you’re born into. I’ve yet to meet a guy who gave the first girl he kissed in his life an great kiss. Knowing how to kiss in such a way that her entire body feels electrified is something that’s cultivated over time and experience. Some of the key points I’ve discovered over time are the timing of the first kiss, discovering what is her fantasy kiss, and creating a sexually charged moment for the kiss.

The initial kiss is a big step in any interaction. The first kiss tells her a lot about you: How comfortable with her are you? How confident do you feel with her? How comfortable are you with your desires? Once she knows how you kiss, she can even form ideas about what you’re like in bed.

Not only that, the first kiss also determines her expectations for the rest of the relationship. Does it feel formal and procedurized? Or did the kiss feel passionate and warm? Her first kiss with you is the first glimpse of what sexual contact with this person is like, and like all first impressions they ripple out into the rest of the interaction.

While you’re first learning how to kiss, there are two key points to get about the intial kiss: Kiss your partner as soon as you can, and to create as much chemistry as you can. (Which is a skill we’ll go over in the next section.)

Kissing her sooner rather than later creates a more spontaneous feel. The more you hold it off, the more she feels like she’s in a ”dating process”, rather than being in an interaction where the two of you are just interested in each other. Kissing her early also speeds up the pace for a faster and more passionate interaction. How soon you kiss her ripples out into how quickly the rest of the interaction will follow.

One other powerful point in learning how to kiss is the art of reading what her idea of the best kiss possible is. Each woman has a fantasy in her mind that defines what her ideal kiss is – Some women enjoy a lot of tongue, some women enjoy a gentle and passionate kiss, while some other women prefer to be pressed up her back and feel taken by the man she’s with.

A big part of learning how to kiss is figuring out her fantasy idea of the best kiss and granting her just that. Only by doing this right will you get comments like “Oh my god, that was an amazing kiss.”

And last but not least, learn to create a sexually charged moment when you kiss her. Women fantasize all day about the moment when their heart stops beating, their skin is flushed, and everyone within five steps can feel that sexual energy. A big part of learning how to kiss with that sexual energy is about communicating your desire for her, non-verbally.

Those few tips we just went over are just some of the things you should learn in learning how to kiss. Other skills, like creating variety in the relationship, making her feel warm and cared for, among many others are also skills that are very important in order to give a woman a great kiss.