How To Talk To Girls On The Phone

Talking to girls on the phone is a problem that every guy goes through at some part of his life. An all-too-common story. It is common for men to find it difficult talking to girls be it on the phone, online and most especially in person. The worst part of it is that learning the skills on how to do it does not happen overnight. With everything said, let me give you a few pointers. Mind Conditioning Before you pick up the phone and dial the girl’s number, condition your mind first. The problem with most men si that they assume the role of a pursuer. Fact: Girls are attracted to men they can’t have. If you allow yourself to be the pursuer, then you’re just going to make your life difficult. So if you want to someday get her into your bed, do yourself a favor and ditch the pursuer mentality. Find a Reason When calling, do not just say “Hi”, “What are you doing?”, “I can’t stop thinking of you”, “Can we talk?” as you are going to sound "needy". Again, the goal is to be the prize, not the pursuer. Be observant and know what she’s like. What did you notice about her? Is she a bookworm? Is she good with fashion? Say something like: “Hey it’s my sister’s birthday on Monday and she likes books just like you. What do you think should I get for her?” “Hi, I think you’re the best person to talk about music. You see, I’m preparing a party for a friend of mine on Saturday and I would love to create a playlist for him. What do you think would be the perfect songs to include in my list?” Right this down, topics that has to do with relationship works wonders. One example is: “I’m trying to help a friend out. What’s your opinion about men who still talk to their exes even if they already have a new girlfriend?” It’s important that you don’t apologize for calling her. For marketing purposes, do not in any way apologize for talking to a girl. Doing so will only make you look "needy" Know What You Need to Say If you haven't formulated a good reason for calling her, don't call or else you'll sound like an over-eager man and hence, the pursuer. Listing down topics or subjects to talk about can prevent dead air from happening. But if you listen and pay attention to what she's saying, you will never run out of things to talk about. Listen intently and remember everything she's saying. If she’s talking about a good book she just read, ask her what makes it good or what’s it about and so on. Also, it won't hurt to say "yeah, haha and really" once in a while. Just so she knows you’re actually listening. Always be Calm and Polite Despite the fact that these tips are true-blue clichés, doing otherwise will definitely ruin your chances of hooking up with her. Even if you’ve learned all the strategies to knowing how to talk to girls on the phone and took these 2 tips for granted, you’re still bound to fail one way or another.