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How To Turn a Woman on With Body Language

Written by Bellaisa Filippis

Topic: SexualityPublished May 20, 2011
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Body language can say a lot of things to a woman you are interested in. It can tell them how much confidence you have in yourself, it can tell them how interested in them you really are, and it can also press a 'hot' button in their brain that turns them on and makes them want more.

Attraction is in part about being attracted to the mind, beliefs, and attitude, but attraction is also about a sexual chemistry that occurs between two people. Without that sexual tension you could just be friends! So make sure to turn up the heat and have her thinking about you as someone who is more than a friend.

Here are 3 gestures that you can use to get her mind thinking about you in a more sexual way.

1. Touch Things and Move Your Hands Suggestively

Do not just keep your hands in your pockets when you are talking to her. By moving your hands around while talking she will notice them more, and by touching things and gently stroking or caressing them you will be able to spark the idea of touching her, stroking, and caressing her. Don't move your hands too fast though because that will send a message of being nervous which is not going to hit her sexual responses and turn her on.

2. Touch Yourself and Move Your Hands Suggestively

It's not just enough to put your hands on your stomach and hold it there. You have to move your hand around slowly to suggest something more than just a stomach ache. Again, don't go to fast as speed is associated with anxious and nervous behavior. Just make slow and suggestive movements and she will be thinking about your hand on HER stomach.

3. Use Your Eyes

Eye contact is a huge part of body language. It shows interest in her, and your eyes can express happiness, boredom, or any other emotion you are feeling. So if you feel sexual then your eyes will express that feeling as well. Let her catch you looking at a certain part of her body then look away. One of the best places to look is at her lips. This is because kissing is the first step into sexual relations and it will naturally have her thinking about kissing you when she catches you looking at her lips.

All three of these gestures should have her mind moving in the right direction to be turned on. Remember to keep your movements slow but not so slow that it becomes creepy. Just follow your instinct and you will find that your gestures will match up with your feelings exactly.

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Want to know 3 vital things that you should know about a females body language? Then visit Bellaisa's website, Pleasure Her Tonight, a website with relationship advice for men and much more.

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