How to Always Know What to Say to a Girl You Meet

Once you walk up to a woman there are a few things you can say to keep the conversation going.

Use these tips to have better conversations with girls. Note: Before trying any of this take a moment to remember that you are actually talking to a human being.

Don't make everything too easy for her. Have an air of mystery. Have her exert a little effort. Occasionally women will try to test you. These times are wonderful for flipping the script and testing her back. When girls test men, the usual reaction is for a man to either puff himself up or to completely fold so as not to piss her off. Both of these will kill attraction. You are just hurting yourself.

When you find yourself in this predicament, do one of two things. When she asks you about your age or what type of car you have, you can either:

First, you can ask her "Why do you want to know?" This is only effective if you say this from a place of authentic curiosity. This will dig up what she really wants to know.

To simplify that, you answer the girl's questions with questions. Don't do this too often or you risk seeming like you are hiding something.

Second, you can tell her something that is funny but obviously not true. Aim for anything insanely stupid. The more idiotic it is, the better. It will highlight the fact that you are relaxed enough in your own skin to not take yourself too seriously. The majority of guys are not brave enough to tell a girl that they've never even kissed a girl. When you pull this off and it's clear that you are merely joking with her, she will start to see you as confident and smooth. If you are ever wondering what to say to a woman, go with something funny.

Additionally, don't forget to flirt a bit in your conversation. If you don't let her know that you are into her, she might begin to think of you platonically. I'm guessing you don't want this. It doesn't have to be a big challenge to let a woman know you're into her. Don't over think this and meticulously calculate some dissertation about how you love her. That will lead you nowhere. Just listen to her until she brings up something that really imprresses you. Then interject with something like "That's really sexy how you go through a new book every week," or "I think it's really sexy how you want to save animals. "

Don't even worry about it sounding normal. It can be a little out there. In fact it will usually be better if it's unique.

I hope you picked up a few tips on what to say to a woman. This isn't open heart surgury. Don't take it too seriously.

If you liked this article, please also take a look at How to Talk to Women and Getting Girls' Numbers.