During our journey through life, we all are prone to come across various relationships. Some will have more meaning than others in the same way while some will last longer than others.

Are you prone to be pulled towards relationships that have a negative outcome? Even though you try really hard to keep everything perfect and happy, sometimes it just end up badly. Well now you can get a positive relationship in your life with a few simple steps.

Below are the tips that you would need to ensure you have a positive relationship in life:

1. Patience. The word itself says a lot. You cannot expect any relationship to develop over night or after your very first meeting. If you are hoping to make long-term commitments, then it is really important for you to take things slowly.

• If you find yourself in a relationship that gives you a positive vibe, make sure you do not ruin it by trying to rush things. Slow and steady always wins the race. You need to apply the same principal in relationships.

2. Keep telling yourself that you deserve it. It is very common to sit and undermine yourself especially when standing in front of your beautiful partner. It is important that you do not underestimate yourself.

• If at any point you are faced with thoughts that perceive yourself to be negative, then make sure you do something about it. Change those negative thoughts into positive ones.

• If you think negative then you will only be presented with negative results. It is important to think positive all the time. Remember the Law of Attraction? You attract what you think about.

•Having that positive energy will rub off on your partner and the surroundings. This will help ensure that you also get a relationship with a person that also has a positive energy.

3. Don’t lie to yourself or others. Do not try acting like someone you are not. Make sure you do not lie to your partner or yourself as this can easily be sensed. This will also portray a very bad image about yourself.

•If you continue with lies, then you are sure to find someone that lies as well. The same principle of negative attracts negative applies here as well. Don’t hide who you truly are as this will help create a stronger bond.

•The best way to tow in a heart is by being yourself and true to yourself.

4. Never take a relationship for granted. Even though you may have come across a number of different relationships of which many may not have been successful, it is important for you to always give thanks for what you had. Learning from your past will ensure that you will have a better future.

By looking and learning from your previous mistakes, you will be able to maximize your chances of achieving a positive relationship.

5. Honesty is key. One lie will lead to another and so forth which will just ruin things for you completely. Stick to the truth and let the positive energy flow into your life.

Everything in life is never given to you. You always have to work for it to ensure that you get it. The same principle applies in having a positive relationship. Be positive and your results will also be positive.

Author's Bio: 

Mark Foo is a Personal Development Blogger @ http://www.TheBigDreamer.com where he writes about Success, Personal Finance, Wealth Creation and Entrepreneurship.

He has successfully brought together 48 personal development bloggers and writers to co-author one of the most powerful *Success* eBooks on the web - The 77 Traits of Highly Successful People - and it is available to you FREE! Grab your free copy of the eBook now at - http://www.77SuccessTraits.com