Living in the stressful world that we do it can be hard to set aside time to keep your marriage fresh and lively, but it’s important to let your partner know that you appreciate them. You can refresh your marriage by finding a way to calm things down and bring you and your partner closer together. But what can you do, you wonder? What can you do that will refresh your marriage on an emotional, physical and sensual level?

One sure way is to delight each other with a male or female erotic massage. An erotic massage is a wonderful stress reliever, as well as a way for you to learn more about your partner and yourself. Who wouldn’t love a relaxing massage, especially while naked and uninhibited with the person you love. Being vulnerable in front of one another can really strengthen your bond as a couple.

To perform an erotic massage on your wife you should start by sitting or standing between her legs, while you gently draw your fingertips up above the thighs and vaginal lips. Your wife will begin to feel more and more pleasure as you begin to explore and discover every inch of her, through the wide range of stroke and gentle movements of the hands during the course of the erotic massage.

To do the male massage have your husband lie on his back with pillows under his head so he can watch you performing the massage. Have him spread his legs apart and bend his knees. Start by gently massaging the legs, abdomen, thighs, chest, and nipples to get him to relax. It’s also important for him to breathe deeply to help relax. Next you can pour a small quantity of oil on the shaft of the penis and the testicles. Gently massage the testicles, being careful not to cause pain to this sensitive area, then massage the area above the penis, on the pubic bone. Also massage the perineum, the area between the testicles and the anus, before moving on to the shaft of the penis. Take your time when massaging the shaft of the penis, varying the speed and the pressure.

Both husband and wife will discover new ways to feel love for each other as they explore the intimacy of their relationship through female erotic massage and ancient texts remind us that a male or female erotic massage is not only for pleasure, but it also has several health benefits for the man or woman, including stress-reduction.

Author's Bio: 

Maya Silverman is an expert on the ' Power of Sensual Touch'. She enjoys sharing her expert knowledge on Sensual Pleasure and Intimacy and Tantric & Erotic Massage practices to increase pleasure, sensuality, satisfaction and intimacy in your relationship. Claim your 2 Free Gifts : A 5 Part eCourse 'Food, Great Sexual Health and Erotic Massage' plus the eBook: 'How to Creating a Sizzling Sensual Massage Experience - Setting the Scene' instantly at =>