I need my ex lover back; If you find that your ex wants to get back together with you but you are not interested, you may be in a difficult position. You may have no interest in getting back with your ex for whatever reason or may just want to be friends. If your ex is putting pressure on you to get back together with them, do not cave in until you are absolutely sure of what you want.

I want to get back with my ex; A complete solution to get your ex back into your life is provided at the end of this write-up (Author's Bio), meanwhile let's build the foundation.

Agreeing to get back together with your ex before you are sure of what you want for yourself will put you in an awkward position should you later find out you made a bad decision. Don't put yourself or your ex through this again. Couples break up for many reasons and one of them is because you may have an interest in getting married, only not to this person.

They may be a great person to be with but just do not have the qualities that you are looking for in a spouse. Whatever it is about them doesn't matter; it is just something you can't see yourself living with as a married couple. Why waste your time in this relationship when you could be meeting someone else that may be the match you are looking for.

If you eventually marry this person knowing they are not right for you, you are setting up what may be a break up in the future. Why put yourselves through that when it could be avoided. So you can see it would make sense not to get back together after this break up after giving in to your ex's request..

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Author's Bio: 

Hi, I am Vanessa Moore, a relationship coach specializing in breakups and dating.

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Wish you godspeed...