i want my ex back what do i do; What does it take to get my ex boyfriend back? If he left you for some vague or unexplained reason, your goal is to find out exactly what it was. Maybe you left him and now realize that it was a mistake and want to get him back.

Can I want my ex back; A complete solution to get your ex back into your life is provided at the end of this write-up (Author's Bio), meanwhile let's build the foundation.

It could be any of a number of reasons the two of you are not together anymore. You are probably thinking about him a lot and don't know what to do, only that you want him back. If the two of just broke up then you are in no shape to try to get him back now.

You and most likely your ex boyfriend are going through an emotional time now and it is no point in trying to discuss things. There is just too much of a risk of the conversation turning into an argument at this point.

It may not sound reasonable but you should wait a few weeks before contacting him. Definitely do not call him begging for him to come back or go looking for forgiveness. You do not need to lower yourself to the status of begging and lose any credibility.

Take this few weeks to yourself and quickly get over the break up. Spend time with your family and friends and get out of the house and enjoy yourself. Build up your self confidence so when you take on the task of meeting your ex again you will come across as in control of your life.

Showing your self confidence will help boost your status in your ex boyfriends eye, and can have the ability of gaining his respect. If your ex shows some interest in getting back with you, let things progress naturally. Do not rush this and mess it up.

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Relationships can be hard to rebuild after having separated. The reason for the separation in the first place is usually to see if you can live without the other. Having this time to yourself to think over what is going wrong with your relationship should help give some insight. But, many times a separation is seen as the beginning of the end.

Every separation does not have to go this route. Relationships can turn out stronger than before after a separated couple had a chance to get some insight into what is going on. You should make the purpose of your separation to fix your problems and make sure they do not return.

Many times people intend to fix their relationship problems but forget to fix the real reason the problem was there. They might get back together but one of them fails to maintain what they need to do to keep it fixed. Next thing you know they are separated again, maybe for good. This would be called relationship maintenance.

While separated, both should be trying to find out what the real reasons were for you to separate. You must get to the root of the problem to fix it for good. And do not just fix a symptom of it, you must fix the actual reason. If you do not do this the relationship can only fail.

Try to look at your issues as an outsider to see if you can leave your emotions out of it. Being emotional over it can mislead your decision making process. Once the problem is identified, you and your partner need to work it out together. Relationships have two people involved and you can fix the problem together.

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Author's Bio: 

Hi, I am Vanessa Moore, a relationship coach specializing in breakups and dating.

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