Ladies, Don’t Make Any Body Language Move until You Read This

Let’s face it; we still live in a world where suspicious looks will greet any woman who thinks the idea of asking a man out is fine. In addition to this, some men find it irritating, un-womanly, and morally degrading when women ask them out; some of them even use it as an opportunity to satisfy their selfish desires. This however, does not mean that a woman cannot make her emotional desires in subtle, yet affirming ways.

They say a picture speaks a thousand words, that is why today, body languages has been used to replace words. It becomes very easy for a man to fall when a woman speaks to him using her body, than when she does so with her mouth. When you speak with your mouth, you trigger a mindless response (you know the stereotyped responses), but when you speak with your body, all the senses of any man will be alert, making him react differently.

Now, the problem with body language is that most ladies out there try severally to act it only to make a fool of themselves. Body languages will be an act of foolishness if you do not act it properly. That is why you must not attempt any body language move until you have read this article.

This piece will help you become fluent in body language signals, so that you will be skilled in attracting the right men and sending the get lost signals to the wrong men.

Number one – Dress the Language
When you look you best, you will definitely feel your best and body languages cannot be better in any other mood than your best. Make it a point not to leave your door, unless you are at your best, who knows, you may just attract him effortlessly. Dressing good is the first culture of body language.

Number two – Keep the Eye contact going
The more eye contact you make with your target man, the more your chance of making things better. You do not have to start looking at him suddenly, that will be offensive so, you may have to start with some sidelong glances before you begin with direct eye contact. As soon as he turns to meet your gaze, immediately lower your face and smile – this should tell him that you were actually watching him and that you are somewhat embarrassed that he caught you. He will definitely be moved.

Number three – like a mast, emit your signals
Make sure you maintain a posture that will emit signals that you are interested in this man, it will make you easily accessible by him – making your work much more easier. Lean forward towards him, uncross your legs, thrust your chest forward or keep your feet flat on the ground facing him. Your body can send messages in a number of ways that you cannot imagine, even without direct contact, your lips, shoulders, hands and legs can send powerful flirtatious messages. Using your hands to caress locks of your hairs, the rim of your glass, or the sleeve of your blouse, will send a chill down his spine. Break the ice by picking fluffs off his jacket or accidentally touching him.

Number four – the final plan
After all the silent communication, you should be getting ready for the get down. Make sure you are mentally stable and prepare your words. At this stage, your choice of words matters so don’t be to hasty – well, the good thing is, if you sent those signals well, you won’t have to bother about talking for too long.