Without doubt, the most common inquiry during a Tarot reading is about love. It often seems as though true love is something that is outside of one’s self, that it is an external force or act of fate that we have little control of. In truth, finding love begins within our own selves. Love is a genesis that manifests within our own inner beings. A happy and successful relationship starts with our selves.

The best relationships are those in which both partners have discovered who they are. When one develops a strong sense of self, their partnerships are more likely to flourish. With self-awareness and self-knowledge one is more capable of expressing their feelings and setting appropriate boundaries. They can recognize their own needs and the needs of their partners. More importantly, for someone that is single, they can recognize the traits in a potential partner that will work or won’t work.

When an individual consults the Tarot about love matters, most tarot readers and psychics tend to focus directly on the current energy of someone’s love life. They often fail to recognize the influence of someone’s own belief systems or behavioral patters. During a Tarot reading, it’s really up to the individual to ask the tarot reader or psychic to explore the topic of one’s own level of self-development and how this might be influencing their love life. A good psychic tarot reader can pick up on this immediately. Questions of love should shift focus. Instead of asking, when will I find love? Try exploring the areas that are blocking you from finding love. Here are some questions that can be quite useful during a love tarot reading.

1. Where are the areas that I need to grow in order to find love?
2. What is preventing me from finding love?
3. What do I need to learn about myself that will enable me to meet a partner?
4. What are my behavioral patterns that are influencing my love life?
5. What are my beliefs about love?
6. What areas do I need to change about myself?
7. Where am I failing to express myself?
8. What do I need to do to open myself up to love?

The more you learn about yourself, the more likely you are to meet the perfect love match. It’s important to remember that when one utilizes the Tarot for love, the Tarot serves as an oracle. Tarot reading is a tool for self-development and growth. In truth, the Tarot is a tool that is available to anyone who wishes to explore their own, inner workings. It is an incredibly effective method for delving into the deeper areas of our own selves that affect our current relationships. Tarot readings never fail to disclose the secrets of ourselves that remain out of sight.

Tarot reading serves as a guide. They are mirrors that reflect our own truths back to us. In love matters, the Tarot can lead us towards the manifestation of our goals and dreams. They reveal our vulnerabilities and the areas that prevent us from thriving. In love, the Tarot can discover what influences us and highlights situations that we may have been unaware of. Most importantly, the tarot offers us a new sense of awareness of who we are. In the end, Tarot reading can open us to love.

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Author's Bio: 

Carolyn Naiman is a professional Tarot reader and the Webmaster of http://tarotreadingpsychic.com She has a Masters in Psychology and has been a Tarot advisor since 1998. For more on free tarot readings, please go to her website.