Loving Yourself
Written by J Costa
Loving Yourself
The way I have always understood about loving yourself is loving your body, your face, your personality, etc. I have always thought that I loved myself but every spiritualist kept saying no. I could not understand it and thought maybe because I am overweight. That is part of it but the secret that no one realizes is that it has to do with following your path in life.
I was unhappy with my life. I did different jobs which bored me or I didn’t like to be treated badly but then it had gotten to a point where I was worried about my future and about making enough money to get what I wanted. I have done jobs that I had enjoyed but I walked away from because of bad management or a highly negative environment to be in.
In my other articles I have explained some experiences and how I have found what I love to do and I had gotten rid of my fear that I could not let go of. There is where the secret lies. Once your fear goes away about what you have or want especially of the future you let go of that then you can truly find what you were meant to do in your life. Everything starts to fall into place.
I have been so happy and my weight is coming right off and I am not doing anything different. Loving yourself is finding your true path that makes you want to wake up in the morning to do it and working towards making it happen with no fear to hold you back. I don’t worry about where my next payment is for school because I know I will have it. I don’t worry what others say because they don’t live with me and they don’t know me. I don’t know them so why would I care? Some people who just pass me by will never see me again. It is not their life, it is mine that drives me and makes me happy everyday.
Most people are miserable with their lives and do not love themselves and choose not to change anything. It is not their fault because they don’t understand that fear holds them back. Like they say misery loves company and believe me they will try to drag you back unintentionally. People who are negative do not realize that their energy will try to hold others back from moving forward. Yet some people who are positive don’t realize it either. They worry too much on what others think and they should not because they do not trust in themselves. No one should worry what others think they are not who makes you happy only you can make yourself happy.
The people coming into my life now are positive people who will make a difference to my future.
I enjoy and love to help people who want to be helped. I also love to help animals and I am doing both things I truly love to do in life. I could care less what people think of me and say, you know why?
I am happy with what I am doing. I am starting to become successful. I am grateful for what I have in my life. I found peace in my life. I love myself.
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About the Author
Jeanette Costa has a Doctorate in Metaphysics, she is a Reiki & Karuna Master Teacher,Spiritual Healer, an Animal Nutritionist and Herbal Practitioner.
Jeanette's teaching is how to use energy that is all around you to heal yourself and others and how to learn to sense and be part of everything around you. By using the energy around you, you would be able to know when someone does not speak their truth by the vibration of the words they speak.
She guides you with techniques to use to grow and helps you understand how to follow your spiritual path in life. For a peaceful and happy life.
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