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M4M Romance a myth? Nope, it’s a fact: Gay Chemistry CAN be created

Written by Gayquation

Topic: DatingPublished February 9, 2012
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M4M Romance a myth?

Nope, it’s a fact: Gay Chemistry CAN be created… Its all about Impressions.

These 11 tips and common sense reminders will help create a memorable experience that will have him begging to come back for more. Matter of fact, it just may make him want to put his face down in your lap.

Engaging the five senses and making the ambiance pull you and your love
into the spell of the moment and each other. Lowering your inhibitions is the key. It comes from you wanting to please and be pleased. By flirting and being playful. To do this, simply follow a few steadfast rules.

1) Smell good, put cologne on the balls, have your stomach area smelling right

2) Smell sexy in the place your playing (ie. your room) light some incense, spray some room freshener, candles or engage his stomach and nose with the rich aroma of food

3) Music playing should be soft and sexual maybe something with no words or something to set the mood

4) Dim the lights or lite candles or add visuals like a vase of exotic flowers as a centerpiece (this can also give out a fragrant smell)

5) At some point, close the distance between you (Touch is your secret weapon in seduction)

6) Get a good drink. Know what he likes or you can go with vodka, it mixes with anything

7) Feed him something sweet and healthy, like a strawberry, something that he can’t turn down. Make sure it has a pleasant after taste. The advantage is, it leaves a good flavor in his mouth that you will be able to taste later when you kiss.

8) Occasionally do a breath check. Have your breath smelling fresh, no yuck mouths allowed.

9) Make frequent eye contact and smile and laugh. He likes it that you are looking at him and you enjoy being looked at.

10) Be exhibitionist for each other. Get in the moment and willing to let go of your judgments and naivety.

11) Personal electronics and distractions should be TURNED OFF to give him all of your attention. He is your playmate and deserves your personal level of attention. Get in the game… of chemistry, that is.

Have fun creating and planning the experience, let your imagination go wild and cater to his and your needs. Even if it doesn’t go exactly as you plan, just embrace it and him, go with the flow and enjoy the bond you have just made.

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