Are you frustrated and feeling lonely because you're not getting what you want with the man you want?

I have good news for you.

Today you can learn how to get rid of the obsessive thoughts that make you feel totally hopeless
with guys and start to get the results you want.

Drawing a man to you has more to do with your mental attitude than your behavior. If you do things like playing hard to get, sending him a text message and making him wait when he gets back to you, or emailing him then holding off for a few days, you will not get the long term result you really want.

This is precisely because men attach themselves to substance and not stuff. Stuff is any or all external behavior exhibited in order to trigger a response. Substance is the inner power that you can cultivate that can make him find you irresistible because it has the force to go down into his heart instead of stopping at his logic.

Many women are plain unhappy with their love lives because they just don't know how to create substance in order to attract and keep men. You don't want to sit on the sidelines being frustrated week after week especially if you're with a man you want to have take your relationship further.

Think about the modern ideas of dating and observe whether it works for the majority of women. The truth is, most women don't know how to really seduce men. Many are out to follow a 3 or 4 step formula hoping they will score but most fail because these formulas are all based on stuff.

If you mind is tripping you up, you have to know how to think because it will naturally help you to behave in ways you really want. Understanding how to think is of utmost importance because your thinking habits have a power in them to draw men or repel them.

When you are in a relationship or if you see a man you want, there is a way to mentally bring them into your atmosphere without seeming desperate or needy.

I know you want to have a reputation as a woman who knows how to make a man fall for you and when you understand that men attach themselves to the deeper elements within a woman, you will shift from any ideas that tells you to act just to get.

The deeper elements that seduces men are all found within the soul - the inner well where relationship either fail or last.

Most relationship will be dead on arrival based on what's going on inside a woman's inner world. When she doesn't know how to harness her true power, she will wield a world wind that acts like a twister in man's life and leave him with a bad taste in his mouth.

You don't want a man thinking of you in such a way where he can't wait to get away from you. Women who don't understand their power, uses their energy in such a way where its difficult for men to stay long.

Think about whats really happening if you've been in a number of relationships and have them all turn out the same way.

Think about the mental attitude you possess towards all of your past relationships or even the relationship you're in now. Do men fall in love with you easily? Do them find it easy to be around you?

If men are having a hard time with committing to you or find it difficult to be in your presence, the common denominator is you.

But instead of feeling inadequate because of this, know that all of your actions is a result of how you think most of the time.

Change even one familiar way of thinking and men will keep begging to be with you.

Tip for today:

The next time you are around a man or the man you love, pay attention to the way you are thinking.
Consistently project an attitude that you already have ALL you need. Make this your primary way of thinking even for 1 hour.

Men will fall in love with you because you will neutralize their desire to move away and instead move closer than ever before.

This is guaranteed to work when you consciously shift your mental attitude, everything around you will shift in response to you.

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