Becoming the Main Attraction

Take a moment. Focus on blocking out the ringing phone, the barking dog, and the stack of papers sitting beside you. Imagine a quiet, empty space. Now tell me what you would surround yourself with. What is your ideal environment? Would you believe me if I said that you could manifest exactly that in your life?

Take a look around. Are you drowning in work, family and other obligations? Now, go look in the mirror. You are choosing to let all of these distractions invade your lifestyle. Like attracts like, so my bet is that your clients and even your friends are experiencing the same problems.

The Laws of Attraction can be really powerful or really harmful depending on how you choose to utilize them. When I first started coaching I was excited, I wanted it SO bad. I told everyone I knew and suddenly life opened itself up to me. Opportunity, networking and genuine interest began to knock at my door. I worked hard to create those relationships, but the key was I WANTED it.

Soon, the demands of starting a business and having to live up to the momentum I’d set in motion became a bit overwhelming. I backed off and so did the opportunity and interest. I stopped attracting what I wanted and started opening the door to disappointment. When you allow self doubt, fear and need to enter your life, you choose to open yourself up to negative energy. Rather than dwelling in the fear of what might happen, turn it around by thinking about what truly excites you.

Here is a sneak peek at a few of the Laws of Attraction:
- Unhook yourself from the future. If you are doing what you love, the outcome will be fine. Being unattached to the outcome makes you more attractive because you don’t NEED anything to happen. Who wants to be needy?
- Creating a vacuum pulls you forward. You can’t make a plant grow by wishing it to or creating shade by standing over it. You have to plant the seed, water it and step out of the way. Plant your seeds and let them grow when the time is right. And the time WILL be right.
- Get a fulfilling life, not just an impressive lifestyle. If you aren’t passionate about what you have and what you do, then what is the purpose of having it?
- Sensitize yourself. When are you are feeling authentically, you will become more aware and able to appreciate life’s opportunities…and eventually manifest them.

These are just a few of the powerful ways the Laws of Attraction can influence your life. Open yourself up to the possibility of creating an authentic lifestyle and you will start to surround yourself with the things you say you really want. You will attract the kind of people you enjoy and you’ll start to get rid of the things you are tolerating.

Coincidence is nothing more than setting your path in motion to be in the right place at the right time. Start writing down what it is you want and put it somewhere you can see it. You make it real by getting it out of your head and onto paper. Better yet, get it into the heads of others. Start talking! Get the word out and you’ll attract what it is you want. It all starts with awareness. Sounds pretty good doesn’t it?

You can find out more about the Laws of Attraction in “The Portable Coach” by Thomas Leonard, “Ask & It is Given” by Esther and Jerry Hicks, or “Excuse Me, Your Life is Waiting” by Lynn Grabhorn. Also, check out Attractionville.com to see some amazing examples of how to be and stay irresistibly attractive!