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Mature relationship vs. immature one

Written by Hina Khan

Topic: Relationship AdvicePublished October 26, 2020
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Relationships are termed mature or immature. Either they love or they don’t. They fall prey to your beautiful eyes or they don’t. They love you or they don’t. There is no grey area. Immature Love can be turned into a mature one. There are some indicators that distinguish the real deal from the fake one. People make relationships for the sake of relationships. They feel alone so they fall prey to the gimmick of Bollywood and make a relationship when they don’t deserve it or are not ready to deal with it.rnImmature relationships ask questions; mature relationships answer themrnImmature relationships are all about doubts. They are just putting questions to each other and you can see them all the time clearing doubt. Does he love me? Is she cheating on me? Will we be together soon? On the other hand, mature couples don’t feel the need to ask questions. They already know the answers. They are not looking forward to seeking assurance of being together. They are comfortable and secure and free of doubt.rnImmature relationships leave you wanting something; mature relationships give you what you needrnThere is always an emptiness in those relationships which are stricken by some immaturity. Such relations are nothing but an emblem of testosterone fueled idiocy that exercise on the shallow foundation of love. You can always feel that something is missing.rnIt eats away at you when you go to sleep or leave each other for just a few hours. It burns dimly when you’re together, but you wave it off by taking support of others and by inviting friends and family. While mature relations are ok at being two. They are not bored with each other. They don’t feel the need to involve other people with them to enhance the group. They are satiated with each other.rnImmature relationships lose their drive; mature relationships make you more motivatedrnWe all get caught under the feelings of love. It sounds okay to find a like minded and go through every possibility just to please them but there is a distinction between the two types of relationship. The mature relation will not make you have the feeling to please your partner and get a single gesture of love. It does not make you earn it. On the flip side immature relations are the bowl of chaos. They both are always trying to make the other feel insecure.rnWhen they have issue they talk face to face and when an immature caught with a problem they fight on text messagesrnFighting on face is natural whereas fighting on text is not. Mature couples do not spend their days bickering over a screen. When they have something to work out, they do it face to face — where the meanings can’t be misconstrued by emojis and auto correct. Technology sometimes plays rude and makes you fall to fight for another shallow issue over the real previous one just because you did not react accordingly through the emojis. Immature couples fuel their relationship with incessant bickering and lengthy messages. Immature couples see long texts as evidence of their “relationship” and find comfort in spending hours hiding behind their phones. They argue just to argue; mature couples fight for their future. Immature relationships are about trying to find yourself; mature relationships already know themselvesrn

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