Are you stuck; unable to move forward in any or all areas of your life? Do you feel weary; your feet heavy as if you are wearing concrete shoes? You walk 100 miles and yet you are still standing where you started. If so, it is time to get unstuck; to take control of your life and your own happiness!

Getting unstuck is easier than you think. Don’t let fear hold you back, for there is nothing to fear. All you have to do is accept things as they are. In other words, stop fighting against that which you do not want. The more you fight against it, the more of it you are going to get.
Acceptance does not mean staying where you are; it simple means to go with the flow; to be “fluid” in your life while you do what you need to do to get to where you want.

When things are not working for us we try to make them better one way or another. When that effort fails we may take a step or two backward, giving up a little hope, but once our motivation returns, we try again. The problem is, is that we try the same thing over and over again expecting different results. We think if we do it “better” this time it will work, but to no avail. Our lives end up feeling like a Merry-Go-Round. We are excited about the ride yet we keep going in circles. Eventually the excitement dies and before you know it five, ten or twenty years have passed and you are no closer to your dreams or being truly happy.

Albert Einstein once said “insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”

So, how insane are you? Isn’t it time to jump off the Merry-Go-Round and get on a new ride? Isn’t it time to take a leap of faith into the unfamiliar or the unknown? In reality, when you sit down and really think about it, what is there to be afraid of? If you need to make some changes to what you are doing or not doing, then make them. If it is your thought patterns holding you back, then start thinking more positive thoughts and focusing your attention on what you do want even if it is not in your life experience yet. Once your focus is turned to what you do want – it will show up; it has no choice!

You are the only one who knows what is holding you back and for those of you who want to blame someone else; the only person to blame is yourself. You are the only one who can get yourself unstuck. Are you ready to take the first step? If so, then stop those things that you are doing that are making you stuck. Release yourself from all resistance; surrender with joy and anticipation of what is to come! And remember….you are the one who creates your reality, so what is it going to be?

Author's Bio: 

Cindy is a Personal Development Life Coach. Her knowledge and expertise comes from 20 years of study, personal life experiences, and from working as a community volunteer and mentor. Cindy guides people toward finding true happiness and life fulfillment along their own unique path. To learn more about Cindy go to or visit her personal blog at