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Things I Have Learned About Relationships. Part I

Written by Rinatta Paries, Relationship Coach, Professional Certified Coach

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Here are some lessons and concepts learned by me, my clients and friends in the process of attracting and creating great relationships. If you get, truly get, any one of these and apply it, you will see an immediate improvement in the quality of your relationships.

It's your job to educate your partner how to treat you so that you feel loved. Communication doesn't mean talking. It means sharing. Infidelity is the surest way to destroy a relationship. Generosity is rarely about money or things. It's mostly about heart. What people do to you is rarely about you and is almost always about their unresolved past - don't take it personally. Until you resolve your past, you are not free to have a future. Until you realize that a great relationship is created by who you are being, you won't have one. Until you love yourself enough to take care of your needs, no one else will. If you feel empty, a relationship will most likely make you feel emptier. Compassion for your partner goes a long way to getting what you want. nnn

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This article was originally written by Relationship Coach Rinatta Paries and published in The Relationship Coach Newsletter, which is a weekly e-mail publication for people who want to create fulfilling relationships. The newsletter contains tips, ideas and distinctions to help you understand and transform your relationships. If you are single, the newsletter will help you attract your Mr. or Ms. Right. If you are in a relationship, it will help you to create much more closeness and intimacy with your mate. To subscribe, go to www.WhatItTakes.com

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