our wisdom/intuition: You have a lot of valuable information from your own
experience and intuitive knowing. Don’t keep this from your reader. A reading is
a co-created experience, and I’d rather discuss issues with my clients than have
them listen in complete silence.


A psychic reading is a shared and,
as I mentioned, a co-created experience. New clients, especially if they’ve
never had any kind of reading, may think they shouldn’t share anything so they
can prove the psychic is “real.”
Though you can take this road, I think it’s a waste of valuable reading time and
your money. Many psychics don’t
actually receive information about your dead childhood pets, the initials of
your first boyfriend, or what your computer password is. This doesn’t mean they
won’t have valuable information to share with you or won’t give accurate


During the reading, it’s likely that there will be an interplay of the psychic
asking you questions and then relating the information they receive. The more
you participate in the reading, the better your advisor can tune his or her
“antenna” to get information that is relevant to you. There is a lot of data
floating around out there, and not all of it is helpful at the time of your


Know too, that you won’t always get the answers you want or perhaps even won’t
get answers at all about a specific topic. Sometimes it isn’t in your highest
good for you to know the outcome of a situation.


For relationship questions or any question that involves the free will of
another person, realize that it is hard to get definitive answers. Because you
and the other person are making free will choices at every moment, what a
psychic sees as likely today may change tomorrow if either you or the other
person goes in a new direction.


For example, I had a reading once where the psychic told me that a relationship
with an ex would likely resolve into a second chance. I left that reading
feeling great and had a whim to take the afternoon off work and go to the beach.
On the beach, I met a man, quite randomly, and we ended up having dinner
together and then dating for 3 years! I never got back together with my ex,
though he did try to connect with me a few times, and now that I’m happily
partnered, I can’t imagine wanting to be with him.


So was my psychic wrong? No—I didn’t ask her about new relationships, just about
my ex. And, she saw a possible future, one that I was definitely considering,
and because I felt positive after the reading, I was open and responding to my
own intuition, and so I chose to go to the beach. But free will is always
available, and the choices we make can shift the future.

We never know how the information we receive from a psychic will affect our
life. Go to your reading with a spirit of openness, empowerment, and
preparation. Participate, share, and trust that you will receive the guidance
that is in your highest good at the time.

Author's Bio: 

Jackie Williams has worked for as a manager overlooking the talent department for a prominent new age communications company. Later as the internet developed, she diversified her recruitment specialty to server global clients for a internet based spiritual network.
She attained her Master of Arts in Anthropology from Northern Arizona University and her BA from Hunter College.