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beautiful Asian women, join the club. I've been dating Asian women for for a very long time, in America and during my frequent overseas travels, and I have carefully crafted a set of tactics and principles that you should stick to if you want to learn how to date Asian women (or take your success rate to a whole new level!)
There are some distinct differences in how you should pick up Western women, versus Asian girls. When it comes to American and European women, I will often use a "cocky & playful" approach to be a bit of a bad boy -- I'll mock women and playfully pass judgment on them, to let them know I'm really not "impressed" -- no matter how good they might look. You see, I ordinarily give girls the sense that they need to impress ME.
This means never answering her questions directly (instead of giving a direct answer, play it off with a joke); don't ask HER the conventional questions ("so what's your name," "where are you from," etc), and instead using creative conversation techniques to keep things flowing; and at the same time, you want to tease women and mess with them a bit. Not in a severe, rude way, but in a lighthearted manner that says something very essential to her: that you're not a predictable, average guy who is hoping to impress her and "win" her.|One way to do this is to never answer a woman's questions directly. Rather, you always sidetrack her questions with jokes (i.e. "What do I do for a living? I'm a lion tamer.")
And, you don't ask her typical questions (such as "where are you from," etc.) You With Western women, it's important for you to take command of the conversation and steer it down the right path, and this means turning the tables and playfully busting on them. This shows that you're absolutely not an average dude.
So the question is, should you look at dating Asian women the same way, and take the same approach? The answer is, in some cases you will use a similar style of flirting. But there are some changes you will need to make to your "game."
Asian women are different, and a lot of this has to do with their society and upbringing. When they were growing up, there's no doubt they watched a ton of "romantic serials" on television. (In America, we call them "soap operas.") The plot of these shows always has to do with a handsome, sensitive guy who is madly in love with a girl, but there are challenges that he must overcome.
Often, the storylineinvolves a desperately attempting to "win" the girl, but she keeps turning him down -- but he keeps itrying until he does something dramatic to "touch her heart." Then she gives in and melts, and they live happily ever after.
Asian women are deeply influenced by this stuff. They're conditioned to expect this same type of courtship in their own lives.
Sure, there are less-traditional Asian girls who are attracted to "bad boys." But most well-raised Asian girls would rather die than embarrass their families, so they would never be seen in public with a guy who wears grungy clothes and is covered with tattoos (no matter how "cool" other women might think he is).
This also means that you can't approach her like a "pickup artist" would, using lines and routines on her and trying to quickly escalate to a physical level.
Indeed, the rules of attraction and seduction do change a bit when you are dating asian women.
I do recommend paying an Asian woman a compliment on her dress, or how nice she looks. I don't advise guys to do this with Western women, because it makes you predictable and unoriginal. But Asian women, because they are so feminine and take great pride in their appearance, will be flattered if you pay them a sincere compliment on how nice they look today.
(She might blush and act shy when you do it, but she'll be flattered and touched.)
It's also really important for you to exhibit masculine behavior (i.e. "be the man") when you are with Asian women. One thing we all love about Asian women is their femininity. It's one of the things we all appreciate most about Asian women: they are totally feminine in nature and appearance. (Unlike American women, who have been taught to try to "wear the pants" in a relationship, and will go out in public wearing a baseball cap and baggy clothes. You won't see Asian women dressing this way -- my Japanese girlfriend used to spend an hour doing her hair and makeup just to go to the store! And they always look amazing...)
Now, as far as how to project the perfect masculine presence that Asian girls are powerfully attracted to, you can visit our Dating Asian Women site and learn these tips, plus much more, and within no time you can be attracting and dating the stunning Asian women of your dreams.