• Ladies If You Are Amazing, You Will Not Be Easy.
• If You Are Easy, You Will Not Be Amazing.
• Gentlemen If She Is Worth It, You Will Not Give Up.
• If You Give Up, You Are Not Worthy.

As much as the world changes, the above statement still holds true. These values have always existed and no matter what progression the world makes towards changing them, there are ingrained in our DNA.

The dating world can be exciting and fun, but it also can be very challenging. So much pressure is placed upon women today. Marketing, videos, music, and films have turned dating and sex into a recreational sport. Whereas any intelligent woman knows that is not true. Sure it can be fun to be flirtatious, but when you get down to your soul you want much more than just some recreational pleasure. You want a person you can share your life with who has the same values that you do.

Do you really want?

• The Serial Dater. The serial dater can often be easy to spot, especially if you are on internet dating sites. That is where serial daters love to hang out because they can have many relationships going and not have to even meet the different ladies that they are interacting with. If you are connected on an internet dating site it is important that you meet this person as soon as possible. You are then going to know if the chemistry is right and if the person is just looking for as many notches on their internet belt as possible.

• The Game Player. The game player is not as easy to spot. Often they come on strong and flood you with attention, e-mail, text, and frequent dates. Then just as suddenly they can disappear. Many times they are just trying to see if you are really the one for them. Because they won you over so quickly sometimes the man will become bored. Men love challenges. They want to see who they win and who gets away. Go slowly when someone comes on strong because there is the possibility of them disappearing. Do not give your heart and soul to this person instantly. You want to protect yourself from any emotional harm.

• The Married Man. Then there is always the married man. He is so attractive, so unavailable, usually financially stable, and appears to be unhappily married. These men will be very convincing that someday they are going to leave their wives, do not fall into this trap. Married men may not be happily married, but it is very rare that they walk away from a marriage. The reasons can be financial, family, relatives, and often it is security. The wife is the protection to keep them from getting too involved with you.

• The Non Committed Man. Now we come to the last and most famous the non committed man! You two hit it off instantly and the chemistry is wonderful. You know that this man loves you like no one ever has before and you love him equally. You date each other frequently and you know that you are in love. Now that you have reached the love stage you want more from this relationship. You want to be exclusive and you want to set the boundaries of your relationship. Now you find that this man is backing away or will not give you the words that you so long to hear, “I only want to be with you. I don’t want to see anyone else. I want to marry you” Once again you have gotten involved to quickly without really knowing this man. This man is afraid of commitment and he will keep you dangling as long as he can until either you or him finally ends the relationship.

Of course this is not what you want. Realize that you are an incredible amazing individual and that you are worth far more than even you realize. That is why life can be challenging for you sometimes because you are unique and that places you in a class by itself. See yourself as someone who is important in this world. There is no one better than you are. That is why you are more of a challenge because you know your value.

The person who is willing to invest time to get to know you is the person who is most valuable in your life. It should be a mutual exchange of getting to know one another and not one sided.

Now you can easily spot the different players in the dating game. Your value has increased instantly because you will not be wasting time and only invest your time into those that are worthy of your wonderful gift of yourself.

Author's Bio: 

Cherokee Billie offers help through the lens of clairvoyance, self-help, wisdom, philosophy, and spirituality. Cherokee Billie is the Author of "Heavenly Seduction" an Amazon.com best seller. In addition, Cherokee Billie is a Naturopathic Doctor (twenty years experience) Life Strategist, a Radio Personality, and an Ordained Minister leading people to a pathway to spiritual enlightenment. http://www.cherokeebillie.com