Many guys are confused whether it is really possible to get back an ex-girlfriend. Personally I think it is absolutely possible only if you know the drill, there are different ways to do different things when it comes to women, dating and relationships. A break up happens when two people are not compatible, Like the formal saying that "two have to agree to work together" Break up is a split between two individual for obvious reason, could be he stopped being the person she met.

Or his attitude and character doesn't fall in place. A girl could leave a guy when she sees him with another girl, and this is often the case. Women don't want to be cheated in relationships, they always want to be the only one, I am talking to the guys about how to get back ex girlfriends, how you can have her running back to you.

I acknowledge the fact that guys seem always perfects at messing up matters, yes! most break ups are initiated by the guys, and we do most of the cheating, Women keep wondering why we can't just stick to one girlfriend, you may really think you are different but the truth is none of us really is different, we all have that yearning for the next girl, those insatiable appetite seem inherent in all of us and to some, that is their problem but to many there is more.

I know there are guys that really tried their best before the relationship packed up, you did everything you thought would make her happy, bought gift, took her to your parents, made her feel loved, played all those Romeo and told her how you really love her and wouldn't want her to leave. You did everything but she still left.
Whatever the case may be, we can get back any girl, and this page is all about getting back ex-girlfriend.

Several things need to be considered if you want to get back ex girlfriend, how did she leave? Did you cheat on her? Does she love you or still love you? Do you have another man in the picture or is it just the two of you. Now, if there is another man in the picture, if she left you for a better alternative, a better man, you can still can get her back without working out your (you know what) or trying to bribe her with gifts, seriously, guy do that - trying to get back a girl by buying expensive gifts.

I don't know if that works but that is a method I will never apply. If you want to get back your ex girlfriend, you must know what chased her away in the first place and be rest assured that she can only come back to a changed person. so a complete personality makeover would be required. When I say things like that people think it would be more work but it is actually no work, simply a little shift in attitude and ways of thinking would get back your ex.

You have to understand that girls want to date men and not boys. Boys seem insecure and indecisive, they have the please take me kind of attitude, they cry, they beg girls to take them while real men take whoever they want
this is the major cause of a break up, when the girl leaves the guy - Immature attitude. Do you know that nice guys don't date beautiful girls, The beautiful girls stick to the tough ones who probably have little time for them while the nice guy get nothing.

I know you want to get back ex girlfriend but first, you need to know what chased her away, only then can you build a better relationship. I want you to get this - those who works strictly to avoid mistakes fails at random. When you work really hard to keep women you lose them, when you put in all your effort, doing whatever she asked and answering whenever she calls, you lose your values as a man then she goes when she stops seeing the tough guy she met in the club.

that being said, I guess you now know why the bad guys gets the beautiful ones, they simply act and sound tough. Yes you know you can talk tough without acting it and that is even worse. You want to get back ex girlfriend? Be the man, then make the first move. Send her a text message "I want you back" then say nothing for a like two days, give her time to think about the text before you make any further move.

OK, one character of a man is that he is not desperate, the bad guys knows that too, but the young boys, they bore her all day, crying and begging. If you want to get her back you must act and look responsible. Call her two days later and tell her you want her back, make it look like you are still in control, women like men that are in control, you wonder why the pretty girls will stick to the bad guys that order them around leaving out the nice guys they could order around? Well that is control, the power to do that lies within.

Finally, If you want to get back an ex girlfriend, move gently like a man, she wouldn't definitely run back to you the first day you make the first call, it is simply like women, try after a while, keep trying until she is calm enough to talk, tell her that you discovered she is a part of you that is worth keeping, that is a compliment and one would be enough. Excessive complement is synonymous with boys not real men and that is what keeps them from getting more girls.

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