If you are really considering trying to get your ex-girlfriend back, then you still have hope. I have put together 5 straightforward steps to be successful. Breaking up might be harrowing but don't stay stuck in this moment. There's a great lesson to be had no matter whose mess up it was. Every situation has a fix, now it's down to you to potentially put your heart to it and begin to rekindle your damaged relationship back together.

1- If you'd like to win your ex-girlfriend back, begin by writing her touching letter. Take your time and pour your heart to her. Write how much you care about her and how much you liked the good times together. Stay clear of writing anything negative, stay as positive as you can.

2- Reach out to her after a couple of days by phone. Ask her if she received your letter and how she is doing. This will make sure she knows you're still curious about being part of her life. If she doesn't answer the telephone, send her a SMS message and wait for her reply. She will appreciate that at least you are trying.

3- Another crucial thing you wish to confirm is that you're staying away from other women. You do not want to get distracted if you want to work things out with your ex-girlfriend. Continue stay centered on your ex-girlfriend and positive. If you continue to follow these steps you're getting closer to winning her heart back.

4- Remember to bring up cheerful memories when you speak to your ex-girlfriend. If there is a vital date coming up during your break-up send her a nice e-card referring to that special date. Let her know you are considering her with no reason to or send her a thinking about you card in the mail.

5- Continue to stay in contact with your ex-girlfriend. This could show her you're still curious about her and would like to still work things out. If she only wants to be mates for the moment until you both work out each other's differences then you are at the very least on a good start. Get on her good side and let her see that you have indeed made some progress on your behalf. When she starts to see that you are contributing to the relationship, she's going to start to re-light things with you also.

These steps helped me get back with my ex-girlfriend. I didn't get results straight away, though it was all worth waiting for. Within two weeks we were back together. I wish you the best!

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Certified Relationship Coach, speaker, and mentor. He is a master at helping others with their relationship problems. His goal is to help as many people as possible to be successful in their relationship.

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