Six Secrets To Help You Pick Up Beautiful Girls At Bars And Clubs

Bars are some of the best environments to pick up women. Picking up girls in bars can be fun and easy if you know how to approach them the right way. Keep in mind that hot girls get approached by men constantly at bars, so you've got to make an original approach that distinguishes you from all the others. (My book "Mack Tactics" contains an entire chapter on approach tactics, and gives you clever & wickedly effective openers to use in virtually any situation.). With that said, here are some tips on how to pick up girls at bars: 1. Before leaving your house, you need to make sure that you look great. You certainly don't need to be tall and well-built to attract women, but you absolutely must be clean, well-dressed and most importantly well-groomed. First impressions are important, after all. Wear nice clothes, brush your teeth, comb your hair, etc. Make sure that you wear good cologne and not the cheap kind if you want to pick up girls at bars. 2. From the moment you want into the bar to start picking up girls, you should project confidence. If you are naturally a shy, nervous guy, you'll need to fake this confidence until you start achieving some success (which is how you develop REAL confidence with women). Body language is extremely important; don't slouch, and keep your head held high. Make eye contact with women. Don't only try to interact with the hot girls you want to hook up with; start friendly interactions with other women as you "warm up" and get a feel for the crowd. A lot of other guys in the bar will probably be nervous too, although some are better than hiding it than others. Those who at least try to fake their confidence will be able to pick up girls at bars better than those who let their nervousness get the best of them. 3. Picking up girls at bars means you might have to approach them. If you're a good-looking guy you may occasionally GET approached by women, but in most cases it's up to you to make the first move. Women usually go to bars with their friends, so don't be intimidated about approaching a group of women and engaging them in a conversation. If she's alone, go up to her, smile, and use one of the openers I explain the "Mack Tactics" book. If she doesn't seem interested, don't bug her. Don't worry about being turned down. This is an important attitude to take when you're out to pick up girls at bars. If you want to approach a group of girls, treat them all nicely. Even if there's only one you're interested in, you should still be nice to her friends. 4. Next, when you approach a girl and start a conversation your tone of voice -- and the topics you discuss -- should be positive. Only talk about the positive things in your life and not the negative ones. She didn't spend all that time tonight perfecting her hair and makeup, and trying on five different outfits, so that she could come out tonight and talk about boring, depressing stuff. She's here to have fun! You simply need to be the guy who provides FUN in order to make her want to be with you. 5. Never be loud, aggressive or hostile towards other guys when you're out to pick up girls. Go ahead and have fun, but don't be the "spaz" who gets on people's nerves (or even worse, the drunk guy who can't handle his alcohol). Don't drink anymore alcohol than you can handle. But there is often a fine line between "pleasantly buzzed" and "hammered," and women don't feel comfortable being hit on by guys who seem to be drunk and possibly out of control. 6. Observe and pay attention to the environment at all times. Listen to what girls say in bars and pay attention to everything that they do. In order to pick up girls at bars, you should observe them for a few minutes before approaching them. I came up with some of my best conversational material by listening in on other conversations! I've heard guys use clever openers which I then borrowed, and I've also seen guys make a ton of MISTAKES which I then know to avoid making myself.. It's better to plan your moves carefully before approaching a woman than to go right up to her as soon as you see her. Picking up girls requires some patience on your part. The next time you go out to have some fun and pick up girls, keep these principles in mind. Now, if you're ready to learn the EXACT openers that I use to "break the ice" with hot girls and start conversations, click here and download this free guide: How To Pick Up Girls - Mack Tactics Free Book